Help should i have sex with him or not

hiya, im 14 i have been with my boyfriend for almost 7months now, he is 16 almost 17, he has asked me a couple of times if we can we have sex but everytime i have saidd no i dont think im ready. he knows im still a virgin but i no he wants to have sex with me but im really not sure if i should. i love him and everything but im still not sure, everyone i have asked have said no just wait til you older but others have said if you love him and it feels right go ahead

can anyone help me ?
thanks

Sex is just good in the beginning. If you engaged into premarital I'm sure there will be consequences that is not good for you. Chances are you, you future will be ruin. Why not enjoy sex in your married life, treat your virginity as a gift for your husband during honeymoon. It is more exciting that way. In you stage or age right now, there are activities that are so fun to do without sexual activities. I know you will not regret saving your virginity to someone you are going to marry and truly love. Don't rush things because it will just come into order.
Enjoy things while you are still young. Go to church activities if you that is the only way you can enjoy without thinking sexual activities.

Sorry not all of it sent first time

I'm not going to tell you your feeling aren't real because you young or anything like that - you're obviously mature enough to decide you have those feelings and think about having sex and more imporantly think about whether you're ready.

Right so here goes my advice:
If he commited himself to a relationship with you when you were 14 he should have thought about what you'd be willing to do and if you'd be ready. I was with my boyfriend for about 7months before we decided to have sex - but we were both ready and both 16. We took it really slow and built up to sex; of you dont feel ready for sex you might be willing to try other things (they can still play on your emotions but no where near as much as full sex). We had a lot of pressure form our friend cos a couple who started going out the same time as us did it after two weeks - one of our

Re

I'm not going to tell you your feeling aren't real because you young or anything like that - you're obviously mature enough to decide you have those feelings and think about having sex and more imporantly think about whether you're ready.

Right so here goes my advice:
If he commited himself to a relationship with you when you were 14 he should have thought about what you'd be willing to do and if you'd be ready. I was with my boyfriend for about 7months before we decided to have sex - but we were both ready and both 16. We took it really slow and built up to sex; of you dont feel ready for sex you might be willing to try other things (they can still play on your emotions but no where near as much as full sex). We had a lot of pressure form our friend cos a couple who started going out the same time as us did it after two weeks - one of our

Wait there hunni

wait yure 14 and hes nearly 17 i saw somthing on tv and that was classed as rape i cant be sure but i think it was

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I would definitely say no.
In my own opinion, I don't think your age is that much of an issue, though I know others would disagree with me on that one.
However the fact that you've asked us this question and the way you've asked it shows a lot of uncertainty, and to take such a big step you really do need to be 100% certain.
If he loves you, he'll wait until you're ready, and if he doesn't then you know he is not the right person to lose your virginity too.
Hope I've helped
xx

What i think

i think you should wait because the fact that your even askin us this question shows that you are not sure if you are ready. Dont feel pressured into doin anything because if you dont rlly want to do it then you are most likely to regret it. Just tell him that you are not ready for it and if he loves you as much as he says he does then he will wait until you are ready. Hope this has helped

No

This is going to sound reallyy old fashioned of me but i kind of think you are too young.
Im 17 myself and i have been with my partner for two year and 3 month i lost my virginity to him when i felt ready..!
No one can tell you when to have sex its just the case of wether your ready or not.
He must wont to be in the relationship for more than just sex seen as though you have been together a while but has he had sex before? If you deside to have sex be carful and always use protection!! x

First time

well i would say no... if he feels the same way as you he'll wait.
I know that when i had my first time i made sure that i was happy with the person and we were both ready.
Just make sure you don't regret it.
If he's not willing to wait then he's not worth any effort.
You have to put yourself first.

Sorry no

I'm sorry,I'm going to say no. Its probaly not what you want to hear, but at 14 your under age for starters, and the fact that your not sure shows your not ready. I know it feels like love, feelings at your age can be really strong and overwhelming. You can only lose your virginity once, so make sure you dont regret it. Its unlikely that you will stay with the person to whom you lose it too, so choose wisely! If he cant wait or doesn't understand, you will know you made the right choice.