Dear cadimo
The proplem that I see is that we can help you but how can we help your boyfriend.I think you can help him , but first he must want help.I hope you know that it is his life and when you want help him it s very importen that you healthy , sane. Becauce I know that it is difficult , when you love him. You must believe and show him that you every time believe that cames better times for you and him. Not look to worried that make him nervous and dont say him how worried you are. Try to show him the better side of life . Show him that you believ that the time is better, than he see. First step you must arrieved that he ist lucky or laugh for minutes that he forgett his situation....and than step for step. But importen dont forgett you his girl friend and not his healer, only than you have the power to help him . You must believe , that the live ist good. You must smile realy smile or laugh than you can arrieved him.
Sorry for my English I hope that you anderstand a little bit what I want to say to you. I whish you the best
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