I seem to have a problem choosing the right men. i know that one ive met isnt right for me and i shouldnt even consider him but i just cant help it! I know it will only cause trouble but i need to know whether im making the right decision letting it go! can anybody help me!?

its sounds like you have answered your own question there. if its going to be trouble be strong let go, you will be happy in the long run.

It seems as if your in a difficult position at the moment. Logics is telling you that he isn't right for you and yet your heart is telling you another story. I know this may sound crazy, but I would like you to list down all the postive and negative points about this man. If the negatives outweigh the positive then you should follow your instincts at that point and make a final decision.

You said in your statement "I know it will only cause trouble"....question is in what areas are more than likely to be affected? The next question would be... are you strong enough to handle the situation? and if so.. for how long?

There are many questions that you need to sit down and rethink... after all this is your life...letting go is a tough decision... but sometimes in life we have to let go of things that are no longer valuable, because there may be something better around the corner.

All the best

Scruffy07

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If you keep making the same mistakes and the same patterns and you already know then I am afraid you already know the answer to your question, Why is this man not right for you?

There are several reasons why he isnt right. but none of those reasons are actually him. if it was him as a person i wouldnt find the situation so difficult, things would be so much easier. but unfortunately it isnt him!