Hi i just found out im pregnant i must be about four weeks and its a bit of a suprise before i knew i was drinking stupid amounts of alcohole each weekend and smoking alot now ive stoped but does anyone know if i could have already hurt the baby and could it be deformed already im so worried i just want to know that my babys ok. plz help kate

I am recently pregnant with my unexpected fourth after having three beautiful children at a very young age. They are 17,15 and 13. I am divorced and 36 and was given quite the suprise. My boyfriend is 49 and has never had children so is quite excited.

Regarding the alcohol use. When I was pregnant with my first I had drank, smoked during the first few month without knowing. I know that is a risk but my daughter turned out healthy and is an A student and was one of the easiest children I have had. I would suggest that you stay away from any continues use though. Pray and know that your little one will be ok.

Good luck!

hiya

i was on holiday before christmas and i drunk quite abit as u do on holiday we wasnt tryin 4 a baby has have a 11month baby already and wen i got bk afta xmas i missed a period and found out i was pregnate as like u i was really worried so booked my self an appoinment to c the midwife, spoke to ere about it and she said theres not much u can do but to stop drinkin from now and she said baby should be find there nuttin u can do bout it as its in the past, went for my 20 wk scan n everytink was find apart from my due date was wrong! hope this helps, u culd c the midwife and ask for a datin scan n then ur b able to c if babys k xxx