hi,


i just turned 16 about a month ago and found out im about 6 or 7 weeks pregnant with my first chid...
when i told my boyfriend (baby daddy) he broke up with me and acused me of cheating...
at that very moment i felt so alone and helpless...
so many emotions and thoughts ran through my head.
i went to talk to my (baby daddy) dad and he told me i purposly got pregnant...
which i had no intentions of having a baby at age 16..
anyways the dad wanted me to have an abortion
but i couldnt go through with an it...
theres noway i could kill my own baby...
most people that tell you " your too young just have an abortion" they never had to go through with one
and thats something i dont believe in....

just yesterday the baby's dad walked out on me again and now im going to have to be a single parent...
the babys dad is in alot of trouble with the law and is a addicted to drugs and alcohol....
so if he doesnt want to be in my babys life thats fine with me...


i just need someone to talk to so if you have any advice for me im hear to listen...



luv megan!!!

hi...

its tough wot u must be going through..especially if the pregnancy wasnt planned, and now you're facing it without the father of the child..but, i dont mean to sound judgemental..but from what you have said about the guy, you and the baby are much better off without him...and i know it will be hard, but in the end it will be worth it...it really will...all you have to do now is think of your baby, and make him/her the priority...lots of women do it single handedly and if they can, so can you...

are you getting any support from your family and friends?

i know it will work out well for you, just be strong and think positively, and dont let negative influences in your life

im 19 and about 17 weeks pregnant.

the babies daddy is my first love and we had a drunken night together and it to us both was a sort of finish to everything thing cause we didnt speak for 3 years. Now this has happened and omg telling him is going to be difficult. wish me luck x