Thanks for all ur advice ladies xx

hi all made another appt with the consultant to opt for an elective c section after the traumatic birth i had with my daughterb fingers crossed theyll let me lots of love jade mia-neve and 16+4 week bean xx

Don't blame you

If your feeling this anxious at quite an early stage in your pregnancy i think you've made the right decision at least that way you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy without the birth hanging over your head. Your naturally going to draw on your previous experience which sounds horrendous. My friend had c section last year she prepared for the wose, ie long recovery period, and it was no where near as bad or as long as she thought. Enjoy your pregnancy, keep us posted
kerry, frankie 15months, vinnie bump 30+3 xxxx