I have never been very thin, but since falling pregant 4.5 months ago I have not been eating properly due to relationship stress and nausea and have subsequently lost 12-14 lbs, all the pregnancy calenders and books are telling me that I should have gained at least 8 pounds by now. Is there something wrong with me and will this have a major effect on my unborn child?

i know in the first 12 weeks its not too bad to not have gained but by know you should have gained a little weight not lost weight. have you talked to your doctor? there is nothing wrong with you just try to eat nourishing meals that you know are good for you and the baby.