Worrying already!!

Woke up this am without my feeling of being on a boat, boobs have only hurt the odd time for 10 secs or so, very mild cramps for about 30 secs each time and I am panicking i am losing my symptoms!!! Have felt bit dizzy but again on and off for only few secs at a time. I know some of you said this was normal but am worried cos my sis got to 12 weeks scan to find no heartbeat, it had died at 7 wks she had no signs of bleeding or anything. Did another test this am and still BFP but am guessing even if something wrong it would still register!!! I AM GOING TO GO INSANE and my poor DH too!!! Is it really normal to feel hardly any symptoms at 6ish weeks???

Sorry for asking silly questions just gonna need constant reassurance I am afraid!


Ems. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ladies thank you....

It really means alot to me, your kind and reassuring words will hopefully mean i will get some sleep, I am just scared as I guess we all are, i just want to enjoy it. I guess its all out of my hands anyway. What will be will be. There has been no sign of blood or brown discharge which i am thankful for (my consultant has said you can get a sort or re-implantation bleed at around 6/7 weeks i am glad i am aware of as i would freak otherwise.

You girlies are a real life line, I have told very few people, not even my best friend and as i am normally such an open person at work in regards to us trying after the long hols understandably people have asked me (I am not a good liar i swear i start to smile and go red) i have said i have stopped the clomid and don't know when my next period will be, thrown away the ferility monitor and that we have stopped trying.....all of which i guess are true!!!

I am just hoping i get my sore boobs back, although i do walk around with a pained expression on my face when i have them!!! God, am i ever content??!!

Thanks again, and I hope you are all well, happy and keeping positive, it is exciting after all - I must remember that myself.

Hugs to all.

Ems. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hiya

Hi Ems,

This is my fourth baby and this is the only one i have had any symptoms with, ie, sore boobs... I have never had sickness etc. I did suffer with tiredness around the 10 week mark with this one and pmt like symptoms (like i could kill someone..)

Don't worry if you have NO symptoms, you may just be one of the lucky ones!!!!!

TC, amanda x

One more thing...

Don't do what i did and read all the horror stories on the net!! It's the worst thing you can do.

Every time you get the urge step away from the computer and go to the cupboard and find some yummy chocolate!!!

Take care

Clare xxx

Hey

Hiya Ems

Gawd aint pregnancy tough.....ul always find somethin new to worry about

As easy as it is to say try not to worry too much. I had no sickness at all so that worried me at first, cos i read everywhere its a sign of a healthy pregnancy so I kept thinkin so wot does that mean for me.

My boobs really hurt tho, which would make me complain and then the pain would just disappear completely and that would make me worry too, but it would come back the next day with a vengeance.

Your symptoms will come and go and it does cause worry, but it is very very normal. Cramps are normal too, so normal that they stopped worrying me and i got used to them, aslong as it doesnt accompany bleeding its ok (and even then that does not always mean the worsed, i had a little light bleed in the beginning)

Also I dont know if this sets ur mind at ease at all but I read that missed mc's are very rare and only account for 1% of m.cs. If there is something wrong ur body will more than likely tell you.

All your worries are completely natural, the bad news is, ul always worry about something new, its the downfall of pregnancy. My latest worry is movement. Some days i only feel very light kicks and sometimes nothing all day and it makes me worry, then the next day the baby uses my womb as a bouncy castle - its a roller coaster ride

You will hear this a million times but try and relax and enjoy it and hope this sets u at ease a little

Julz - 28 weeks xx

Hi

I know exactly how you feel - I am 8+4 at the moment and have had no real symptoms at all and can't get an early scan as I have no reason to have one lol!!! I have had period type cramps but they are not constant, but I have no sickness, boobs not sore and haven't grown at all and I constantly worried about nothing being there!!!

Try not to worry and think positively - I know it is easier said than done and time seems to drag. I got my bfp nearly 4 weeks ago now and it feels like a lifetime away!!!

Just wanted to let you know that you are not insane!!!

tc

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8+4

Hey

I would say try and relax a bit but i know easier said than done, i was terrible with the worrying and couldn't stop, actually don't think i have stopped worrying now.

I think i posted a similar posting about symptoms going and i am sure others have too.

My symptoms came and went but before you know it the tiredness hits you bit time!!

When can you have you early scan?

Try and focus on something to help pass the days that's what i tried to do, again easier said that done, just think each day is a milestone and baby is growing bigger and stronger.

Once u have your scan hopefully u will relax a bit xx

Love

Clare xxx