Dilemma!! and a random gossip

Right!! This is the 3rd bloooming time i have wrote this as the first time i clicked start again instead of post and the second time i pressed CTRL and A instead of SHIFT and A and it selected all the text and deleted it!!!!
3rd time lucky! ( im getting stressed out here so there might not be capitals or pun - sorry! )

Right my dilemma is.. My fiancee walked out on us a couple of week back. We had an argument which was right out the blue and he told me he was going and he didn't feel the same nor did he want to spend anymore time or money on Daisy ( my 3 year old ) when she wasn't his child! ( I explained it all in a reply to my previous post about hospital )
Anyway he went. Im very pregnant with his child and I don't know what last name to give him/her.
I had Daisy when I was 16 and her dad left after 2 days but I gave her his last name which is Robinson. I then got pregnant with this baby and naturally I was gonna give it my fiancee last name ( Sutcliffe ) but now he wants nothing to do with his baby. So do I give baby my last name? ( Holt ) but then all 3 of us will have different names! Can you change a name once it's been registered?

Anyway I haven't asked how everyone is? Hope all mummies and bumpies are all well?
Me and bump are on the mend now after our hospital trip!! I'm still brusied but feeling better. I have had the steriod injection to bring on bubs lungs incase he/she does decide to come early. My waters have stopped leaking but I'm still taking anti b's as I don't want an infection in the rupture cos that will set labour off

Daisy is ok... Her eating is back to square one again thanks to my fiancee being horrid to her and calling her fat now she won't eat again ( she has a serious aversion to food for anyone that doesn't know me ) I'm glad he's gone but he didn't have to be horrible to daisy who is an innocent 3 year old!! I had just spent a fortune on a therapist to get her to eat again and she was on the mend until he said that.
She started school on monday!!!
Well she just goes 5 afternoons a week and will start full time next sept. Where has my little baby gone??
She makes me laugh... We were sat on the floor watching peppa pig and she laid her head on my bump. The baby then kicked her right in the face!! She burst into tears! Think it freaked her out more than it hurt her!
Also she was flicking through my littlewoods catalouge and got to the page where all the men are stood in boxers. She pointed at one and said "mummy can we order a new daddy? I like this one!" Least he was a hunky one

I'm on sick now for a week then I'm back at work for 2 days and I'm on mat leave then, wooohoooo!!
I just realised yesterday that I'm having a baby next month...!!!! oh my god!

October ladies.. We're nearly there!

Big ... to everyone. Hope all is well. Sorry for the big long pointless boring post but I'm bored STUPID! I'm sick to death of peppa pig and the most intellectual convo I have all day is about fairy princess castles joys of being a mum eh?

Lots of love Kirsti, Daisy (3) and 32+4 Yellow Bump.xxxx

Hi

Im sorry you are having a rough time of it at the moment and i hope things get better for you real soon.

Once youve legally registered babies name you need the childs fathers consent if you wish to legally change it, however you can let everyone know youve changed your childs name (albeit not officially) and your child can be known by the new surname. You can even notify the schools, doctors etc that your child is going by a new name and they will happily accept this as this is what my sis in law did with her son when her ex left. This way you and your two little ones could all go by your surname.

I didnt know your waters had been leaking, ive not been around over the last month due to various problems so ive missed out on a lot of the sofem going ons, i hope things are looking up for you and dont the steroid injections bloody hurt??

Hope baby stays put for a little while longer.

Take care.

Katie and 31+1 Jessica bump xx

Horrible ex

How dare he say something like that to your daughter and treat you like that. Seems like you are well rid of him. I think you should give bubba your name, it makes more sense than naming him/her after Daisys dad and I dont think your ex deserves to have his name after your baby's, seen as he wants nothing to do with you both. Be proud to name bubs after you! you have done all the hard work and will be there throughout.

Does Daisys dad have anything to do with you? if not you could change her name to Holt, although changing things might be a bit of a nuisance. I am so glad you are feeling better and bubs seems to be happy in there. I have a feeling you will go full term!
Just think you only have 7 weeks left!!
Hun, do you have a birthing partner? I feel you need all the support you can get. I dont want you to give birth on your own, no one should have to do that, particularly with what you went through last time.

Hannah and 33+4 pinky x

Thanks girls.

Yeah he's a nasty piece of work isn't he just? I just hate my last name and not many names go with it Any ideas on baby names for either sex? Lol.
No Daisy's dad doesn't see her anymore and I lost contact with him a few months ago. I could easily find him as I still have his mums contact details ( Daisy still sees his mum occasionally as she did nothing wrong to us ) I don't want to confuse Daisy, this is my big problem. She is so messed up already from having 2 dads then down to 1 dad, now NO dads! She knows her last name is Robinson and I don't want her wondering why baby has different name as she might feel abit left out or that she's different to baby and I don't want her feeling like that! ARRRRHH so confusing lol think baby should have my last name... Hmmmm. Just need a name for them now.

Yep feeling tonnes better thanks. I think I will go more or less full term too. Probably over knowing my luck lol.
I know.. 7 weeks.. WOW! Ha ha you only have 6 scary isn ... ! ?
Bet we end up giving birth on same day!

No I don't have a birthing partner yet. I don't know who to choose.. I get on well with all my siblings and family so it could be one of them? Or my mum.. I hardly see friends nowadays but I do have a close friend back down in my hometown ( which is near where I'll give birth - so confusing isn ... !! ) I hate being in the middle of nowhere. Hour drive to hospital and no where near my friends or family! See this is what you get for giving up your life for a man then he leaves you with the house, without your family, in the countryside, on your own! AARRRHH lol

Thanks for your lovely replies.

Kirsti + gang.x