rant....

Hi Ladies and bumps,

Just wanted to come on and moan as im really frustrated few things:

First: NO baby yet i want him out NOW im sooooo fed up of being pregnant and i just want my baby to have that feeling again... and just to see him safe... keep getting period like pains but nothing else...

Second: my car tax run out and as i havent recieved a log book as it needs a VIC test (was written off for a minor and test is to say its road worthy) b4 i can have it i cant get any more tax until the test is done i had to drive half hour away to DVLA to try and get tax and they said no - test takes a month - so i declared it SORN this morning but couldnt get it onto my drive as the d*ckhead next door have a van on one space his car on my path and the other next door negihbour has his on the other space so when i went out this morning i had a nice shiny yellow CLAMP i don't know what to do i cant afford to pay £100 for the removal £160 fine £50 for the test and £100 for tax so in total going to cost me just over £400 and i only get 50 a week income support

Thirdly: theres still so much that i need to get done in the flat - i need carpet on the stairs as they collect dust so easily and still need kitchen and bathroom linoed - its like OH did front room then gave up and now my nan pulled out of the house swap we are stuck here until we find an alternative

Just feeling like i get the worse luck and feeling abit sorry for myself...

Hope everyone else is ok....

Sammie, Mya (who needs to send me some luck) & bump 38+5 xx

Aw hun

(((((hugs)))))

That's so crappy your stupid fkn neighbour!!!!! Who has clamped you? Is there any way you can appeal on the clamp? What about extenuating circumstances - apart from all that you have been through in the last year - you're very heavily pregnant, no parking avaliable due to neighbour, no money to pay fines etc. if you plead with them they may help you - maybe Citizens Advice bureau will have some advice?

I know it's frustrating when you have house worries I really sympathise with you there (I had lots of things go wrong with the house just as Holly was born, so bad that we could not take her back to there for 2 weeks as all the electrics were declared unsafe) but as long as it's clean and tidy for now, that's the main thing - I know all the pregnancy hormones make it all seem worse than it is and I know it's so frustrating when you just want it all to be sorted (((((hugs)))))

Lots of love and hugs - and hopefully baby will be on the move for you soon!

Rach xx + Holly

Hey hun...

How you feeling today?

Have those period pains turned into anything more?

I can totally sympathise with you on the car clamp! My car had been on my parents drive as it had broke down so I declared it off the road, then I managed to get it going and was moving it just round the corner to my drive and it broke down again! I had to wait for OH to come home before we could move it anywhere and when we gt to it... a big yellow clamp was attached to my wheel!! I was so broke that I had to let them take the car and declared that I didn't want it so that they dropped the fine, but then lost my car.

I still haven't got a finished kitchen, we have wall tiles to go on, painting to be finished and flooring to go down... and i have been waiting since last christmas for it to be done lol! So I can totally sympathise with your frustration... although I have been promised that it will be done by thursday, which I think is cutting it a bit fine lol!

I'm full of a cold and feeling really worried about next friday... so scared, keep bursting into tears, and can't sleep with worry!

Hope your feeling a bit brighter hunni!!

Lv Alex, Megan (5) and baby bump that will be out via the sunroof on friday 2nd!!!!!! xx

Hiya!

I just wanted to say I am thinking of you. It sounds like you are going through a rough time. You have to just stay focused on taking care of yourself and looking forward to meeting your bubs!!!

Have you tried to explain the situation? They will prob be unsympathetic but if you don't ask you don't get! That is my motto anyway.

As the wise words of that famous song say : Things, they can only get better.....

TC , love and Hugs. Not long to go at all now!

Ems. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

awwww hunni!

I hope things start lookig up for you, i really do, i can sympathise. I have just had to pay an £80 car tax fine for a car i sold to a friend back in March, I still have not recived my health in mat grant, have no job and get no support from the benefits people! so me and OH are trying to survive on his minimum wage paid job! i don't qualify for,maternity allowance, income support, employment and support benefit, i don't get anything! OH is 24 so no working tax credits to top up his wage either! it's so hard, we still don't even have anywhere for our little girl to sleep! and she is due in 9 weels!

Have a look at freecycle.org it's a web site where people give the old stuff away, for free, you may be able to get some lino and carpet on there!

Good luck with everything

Gem and Lilly (31 + 2)
xx

Hi hun

Just wanted to say if you didn't already know - once baby is here you will qualify for tax credits as if you are over 16 and responsible for a child the 25+ thing does not apply Also once you are claiming you may also be able to apply for the Sure Start £500 mat grant, depending on what your tax credits award is - you can claim up until baby is 3 months - ask your MW/HV as they have to sign off on the form I think.

http://www.taxcredits.inlandrevenue.g ov.uk/Qualify/WhatAreTaxCredits.aspx

http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/MoneyTaxAndBenefits/BenefitsTaxCreditsAndOtherSupp ort/Expectingorbringingupchildren/DG_10018854

Rach xx + Holly nearly 9 months

Hey

they say it comes in 3s so hopefully thats it for you and you have a good birth iv been haveing a bad week first my bloods are bck and i need to see doctor then my 13 yer old gets kicked in the head about 20 times in school and they do pee all then my son breaks my settie arm of my leather so now my 500 pound will have to go towards a new one if u on low income can u get a loan from dhss ?