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Newbie and need in of your advice please

Hi Guys,

Im new to this sort of thing so sorry if i mumble abit...

IM going to be 21 in May and i have already had a baby which is 11months old and i have just found out im pregnant again, even though we were being careful, im not sure how far gone i am, but my mum is still trying for a baby and i really dont know how to tell her and i live next door to them and we have been looking at new houses and now im going to have to tell her both things now, i dont wanna fall out with her as she is my mum and she looks after my little girl every time i work so i really stuck....

please can someone direct me in the right direction on what i could say as i was going to email her lol!

Thanks guys

K Xx

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Hiya hun

I'm the same age as you.. I've just gone 20 in July. I have a 3 year old daughter.
I'm sure she will understand, she's your mum and that's what she's there for! Talk to her about it. You will still be able to see her won't you? How far away are you planning on moving?
As for telling her, just sit her down and tell her calmly over a cup of tea. Get her on her own in a quiet room where there is no distractions. Don't email her as it will make her feel bad and like you can't talk to her.
I'm pretty sure she will understand chick. Tell her sooner rather than later as the longer you leave it, the harder it gets and the worse she will feel.
Take a deep breath and do it!

Let us know how you get on

Love Kirsty, Daisy (3) and 37+3 yellow bump..x

Hiya there

try just telling her to her face i'm sure if she is understanding she's not gonna begrudge you for being pregnant. don't email her it's not nice especially as she's only next door. I'm sure everything will be fine just take each day at a time.
nothing much else i could really say, hope it helps you.

tc xxx



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