Need some advice  
Hello girls
I am new here, been lurking for a while but only just registered. I am currently 5 month pregnant, I already have a 2 year old daughter aswell.
I am just a bit concerned about a few things. I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have been happy together and both pregnancies were planned.
About 8 months ago we went through a rough patch and I was not sure we would stay together, he admitted that he was feeling low and wasnt 100% happy in our relationship and said that we needed to change a few things in our relationship. He even told me he had thought about cheating on me but when it came to deciding to go out and chat up girls he couldnt even go out of the house!!! The thought of doing it to me made hime feel sick!!! Good I know, but I did find texts to his brother saying he was looking up dogging sights and contemplating cheating!! We spoke for days on end and both got very upset at times but we finanlly sorted things out and we were back track. Things were going very well between us and all seemed good. I found out I was pregnant and he was very happy. When I was pregnant with my daughter he went through a faze where he always wanted to go out with his mates and always wanting to get drunk (out or at home) also he was always wanting cocaine (he had been into this big time when I met him but stopped a year into our relationship - his choice) I put it down to the nerves of becoming a 1st time dad and rebelling slightly against the approching responsiblities. This stopped after about a month or 2 but we are back there again now!!!! It is happening later on in my pregnancy this time around though!
He went out Friday and got very drunk and didnt come home until 2am after saying he would be back at 12, I dont think he was cheating but I do think he lied about taking cocaine!!! He was hungover all day Saturday and was stuck to his mobile trying to find someone who had some weed, he has always smoked it and it doesnt bother me as he smokes outside and always has done. He got a text Sunday morning and asked me to read it to him so I did but I also checked his sent items and there were texts about getting cocaine Friday night and then some more about getting it Saturday night - we wasnt even going out he just wanted it at home!!! One of the texts was to his brother and it said not to mention it to me as he didnt want me to know about it he wanted it to be a secret!!! Why I dont know?!?! I know it was wrong of me to check his texts but I felt so low yesterday I couldnt stop myself looking!!! One other text was Saturday night to a mate saying he was in Asda and that he was horny and that every girl looked shaggable!!!! Sorry I know thats not nice to write but I have to get it of my chest and didnt know where else to turn.
What do you girls think I should do?
Love Janey and Bump xx
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