I'm concerned again.....

Hey ladies, bumps and new mummies

I posted last week to say I still havent had any movement from my little Bean. I am 19 weeks tomorrow and it is my 2nd and really thought I would know a deffinite movement but I can honestly say I dont think I have felt anything!!!!!

My other concern is that my OH and I had some loving this morning, which we have done quite regulary (bad spelling today!!) and I have had a bleed, not huge amount and I know I posted before about bleed ing afterwards but this is the 2nd time its happend out of say 15-20 times!!!! This time was different though as there was a few tiny clots in there (sorry TMI), it wouldnt worry me too much if I had felt baby move!!!!!

Am I just being paranoid or should I be concerned. I am not due to see my MW until 30th Dec for my 28wk check up and I have my scan 1 week today.

What should I do ladies? I was never this panicy with Ellie!!!!

Love Zoe, Ellie (18months) and 18+6wks Bean xxx

Hi zoe

Just wanted to say I am thinking of you and hope you are trying to to worry too much. I cant really offer you any advice but suggest you try to keep as busy as you can so the next week goes really quickly! It won't be long before you see your little bean!!

Lots of love and hugs.

Ems. and 14 +1 half banana. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey

hey hun
i wouldnt worry to much as you havnt had any pains ,but if will put your mind at ease i would try and ring your midwife.....the movements i wouldnt worry all pregnancys are different...let us no good luck
linzi and 23 weeks bump xxxx

Hey hun, me too

Hi Zoe,

im exactly the same as you and im on my third pregnancy, number 1 & 2 were right wrigglers from the start, with this one i havent felt him/her move once yet and im 18+2 today, have been checked out though and all is fine, took flipping ages for the stupid new MW to find the heartbeat at my 16 week appt tho but its there so i know he/she is ok!!!!

im not too sure about the bleeding tho hun, i would say nip to your local a&e and just get them to check you out just to be on the safe side, im sure i have read somewhere tho that loving can somethimes lead to a knock on the cervix and this is why it bleeds?????

Hope all is ok for you

Take care

becky, Josh nearly 3, Lilly 8 months & 18+2 bean xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hello

do you not have a direct dial straight throgh to your midwifes line the emergency out of hours one????
if not if you are not happy to wait till monday i would just go up to your local a&e they will help you i did this with one of my bleeds they were really good with me and helpfull

ems 21+1 xxxxxxx

Hey hun

i know how you feel i've got similar stuff going on too this is the 2nd that out of a few times that we did it that i've had a bleed too and it's freaking me out a bit as it was red the first round we did it and it went brown the next day, this time it was red again but a bit more of it and that was yesterday and today it's still red and had it twice today but no pain or cramps though. My oh is trying to reassure me though saying everything is gonna be alright.

i think you should go straight to see the mw or the hospital to get checked out for peace of mind esp with the clots and you not feeling your baby move as well.
Have you got any pain or cramplike pain at all?

i've got my scan next wk on the 5th hopefully i'll stop by later today or tomorrow.

love and big hugs
sherri 11+4wk pudding
xxxx

Hey

Hey Sherri

No pains or cramps today but after we went shopping yesterday I had few sharpe pains in my belly but they eased off. I am just wondering if it was the loving that made me bleed or if it was gonna happen after the pains yesterday!!!!

I have called docs to get MW appointment and they said she is full this week and that they think I am fine and to just wait for my scan on Monday at 9am!

Love Zoe, Ellie and Bean xxx

Hiya zoe

That's good. Well i think it could be, I know it is with mine, even though i thought if we were a bit more gentle it wouldn't happen but you know how these things happen !

it's absurd at times wot we have to go through. but if you can manage to see how things are by tomorrow like me we can get through this together and wait for our scan if poss. but if you are more concerned go to the hospital and get checked out, there's no harm in that.

feel free to pm me if you want and we can try and calm each other down.

tc love
sherri xxxx

Hey hun

I would really try and not worry too much, easier said than done i know!!

It is perfectly normal to bleed after sex although i know i would freak out, in my books it says that it can be due to small tears in the cervix and providing it doesn't continue you'll be fine.

As far as sharp pains go i'm forever getting them and have been told it's perfectly normal, it's just everything stretching and growing inside and outside.

I have only recently really felt baby moving properly and proper kicks, i think it can happen at any times for anyone, the midwife you saw last week felt baby moving so at least you know that he/she is and seems perfectly normal.

You could get a dopler to listen to babies heartbeat that might ease your mind? I wouldn't be without mine.

Take care

Love

Clare & 21 + 6 blue bump xxxx