Wanted to say thank you girls but.............

I lost the baby yesterday, when i went home after a&e i started getting really bad periodlike pains and the blood was pouring out of me eventually i starting passing clots and then all at once i passed big clots and one of them was the baby which i found out for def today when i had an ultrasound external and internal. but i did take the baby clot in with me to the hospital back that same day and i was still bleeding so they decided to keep me in and see how the bleeding went.
i only came back home just an 45mins ago. i decided to have the medical management of a tablet today and another tomorrow to make sure all the matter is cleared out from my system.
it's unfair but i know that something was wrong with the baby for this to happen. it's unfair and i feel i don't know wot!

tc love and hugs
sherri
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Oh Sherri,

I dont know of anything to say except how very sorry i am and that I am thinking of you

TC

Danni xx

Aaaw

i am soo sorry to have read your post. i really dont know what to say. its good that you have accepted a reason for it happening, that maybe something would have been wrong. as hard as it is its the best way to think. when i had ectopic in 2006 i wouldnt accept a reason for it and i went into very deep depression. try keep your chin up and look to the future.
love n kisses
all the best
sarah xxx

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...sherri hun im so sorry to hear about that i really am. i went through the same myself so i know how you are feeling. i dont know what else to say but take care and hopefully we'll see you back on here in no time. my love to you and your partner.
Orla...xx...

So Soo Sorry Hun, My thoughts are with you

Take Care
Kat xxxx

Oh hun x x x

So sorry to hear you lost ur little one x x

You are right that the baby prob wasnt ment to be, but it doesnt make it any easier x x

we are all here for u babes x x x x

Love Laura

I am so sorry

to hear of your loss. I can't even imagine how you must feel.

Take care of yourself and hope to see you back real soon.

Love

Clare xxxx

I'm so sorry

So sorry to hear this Sherri, thinking of you.

Take care of yourself.

Love and Hugs

Tara

Sooooooo

Sorry hun, take care and im sure your be back here within no time.

Take Care

Emma. xxxxx

Im so sorry hun

My thoughts are with you

So sorry

hey hun
im so sorry,my thoughts are with you as ive been through it myself
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So sorry

hey hun
im so sorry,my thoughts are with you as ive been through it myself
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So sorry

I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm thinking of you

Please take care of yoourself

Luv & Hugs

S.J xxx

Sorry sweetie

Sweetie just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you.

Sorry to hear of your lost

Love Zoe xxx

I am so sorry

to hear you news. Thinking of you.

Take care,

amanda xx

HI Sherri,
i'm really really sorry to hear of your loss, i know theres not much anybody can say at this time, i have been through a miscarriage before i concieved Maisie and its the most awful thing.
but many many women go on to have a healthy pregnancy following a miscarriage me included and a few women i know.
sorry if i'm not helping or upsetting you more but i just wanted to say something, especially having been through this experience myself , its difficult but it will get easier, even though i still have a tear every now n then for the one i lost!
all i could think was did i do something? and why me? but like you said there is usually something not quite right and its best for the baby not to carry on.
but you when you feel ready and you try again you will be back here in no time and it will happen for you hun , honest.
once again i'm really sorry and i hope you start to feel better real soon and i hope i haven't said the wrong things - just trying to help.
tc
love sarah
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Thank you girls

thank you for all your support.

sarah don't be sorry i know wot you are saying and i understand and i will def go back ttc just when i can do it is another matter as i might leave it till the end of nov will have to see. also should i wait as the doc said after two af cycles or just try before any af as i know you are meant to be more fertile after a mc?

thanks again girls.
love sherri
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Hi

well i just started bd again as soon as bleeding stopped but i didnt get af till 12 weeks after, but i always had irregular cycles.
i think that they tell you to wait as you can be irregular after a mc and they cant work out the dates.i got pg with this bean just 3 months after giving birth and the doc said to me that if my body wasnt ready it wouldn't have done it and that theres nothing to worry about. so if you go back to bd'ing and catch quickly then your body was ready to it otherwise it wouldn't start ovulating again.
yes i now know you are more fertile after a mc and after giving birth.
good luck and keep coming on here for extra support.
hope you're feeling a bit better- stupid thing to say but i hope you do.
love
sarah
xxxxx

Sorry hunni

Hi Sherri,

I am sooo sorry to hear about your loss. I know exactly how you are feeling right now as I went though the same last year at exactly the same trimester as you. It is the worst feeling ever and the upcoming weeks will b harder for you. Give yourself time and make sure you grieve for your loss.

You can try again when you feel mentally ready to. The doctors recomend one full cycle just so they can work out an EDD. It is correct you are highly fertile following a mc but you have let yourself get over your loss first hunni.

People used to say to me time is a healer and I used get frustrated with them as all I wanted was my pregnancy back but they were right,

You have a lot of wonderful ladies on here that will help you through this difficult time, it was my lifeline when I went through it,

TC Hunni, lots of luv n hugs Sara x x x