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Fed up with being pregnant!

hi everyone!
i'm 40 weeks today still no baby!!! i'm having lots of braxtons contractions and had a bit of a show on sunday, but still nothing is happening. really depressed about it now, just called the hospital to find out about being induced, unbelievable, they told me at 41 weeks they do a sweep membranes, then u wait 10 days from that date to make an appointement to be induced!!!! that means worst case scenario u have the baby 1 month later!!! so has anyone gone through that nightmare, have u got any tips to go into labour.
i am drinking raspberry tea leaf since yesterday, hoping it might help!!! by the way, charlotte how are u feeling , is the baby born yet?

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Babies eh

hi i havnt personnaly had this but my cousin was due to be induced with both her children and the night beofre both she went into labour naturally they think its to do with the fear of having someone interfere, but fingers crossed you dont have to wait too much longer. take care xx

Fed up with being pregnant

Hiya, im 40 weeks and 4 days i have been booked in for my membrane sweep on tuesday and at hospital on sat 18th to be induced, seems a long time for you to have to wait... if it helps atall im totally peed of aswell, weve waited so long to meet our bundle of joys and the thought of waiting a min longer is so fustrating. you should nt be going longer than 42 weeks ...

ive been taking the rasberry leaf tablets as they are stronger than just the odd cup of tea a day, but i have been taking them for 2 weeks and no signs yet.

i guess there just not ready yet mate and will come in good time, there just v v comfy where they are tucked up in mommys tumy. xx

Want it all over

Hi everyone
I had a membrane sweep done yesterday and since i have had it done i have had 3 shows but no pains just very sore aroung the baby bump. This is my 6th pregnacy but never had that done with any of the rest and never had a show before. I am being brought in to be induced next thursaday as i know what that is like. But can you help with the answer to having 3 shows since yaeterday

'tell me about it'.

Im 41 weeks and 3 days today, my tummy can no longer stretch anymore.Im finding it difficult to walk,sit and sleep. I haven't slept properly in 4 weeks.
My baby is in no hurry to come out, but I'm worried about its well being.

I had a membrane sweep at 40 + 4 days, but to no avail. Im going back to hospital this Friday to arrange a date for a C-Section.I hope I do end u having a section as the baby seems huge, I doubt whether I'll be able to deliver naturally.

Its the worst waiting game Ive ever played, my 2 year old has also decided to start his terrible two tantrums so you can imagine.

Ive tried Rasberry Tea, 2 cups a day for 4 days. Pineapple, Sex, walking on a kerb with one leg on road, squats,hot curry and praying. But I believe in fate, the baby will come when its supposed to come. If its destined to arrive in 4 days buy natural means it will.
Just try to put your mind elsewhere and let baby take 2 weeks longer if it wants.However, do not let your hospital take longer than 2 weeks, demand a C section at 42 weeks if you do not go into natural labour.

GOOD LUCK



Sooooo fed up!!!

I am 41 weeks pregnant today and soooo fed up. Everytime i see my midwife she says to me he wont be long but everytime its another week.
I had her come round last wednesday and tell me that she couldnt reach my cervix but its soft and short, so it should be soon, its now sunday and still no baby! she is comin round next wednesday to do another sweep but have a feeling its not worth having done.
She has booked me in for induction next saturday too sooo im lookin forward to that date I JUST WANT MY BODY BACK!!
I was due on the 18th of feb its now the 24th and wont be induced till the 1st march.

39 weeks pregnant with #2 and fed up!

With my daughter i was overdue, fed up and irritable. I saw my due date come and go got the date to go into hospital only for them to give me another date 10 days later. I was due on the 8th March. The hospital said they would bring me in the 20th march to be induced. OH MY GOD, i thought another 12 days of waiting thinking every twinge was it. I took loads of hot baths, curries and clarice sage oil in my bath. My waters broke at 1am on the 19th March and my beautiful baby girl was born on the 20th. I still had to wait those extra days but atleast i wasn't induced. It might still happen to you! good luck!

Fed up with being pregnant too..lol

Hi
I'm currently sitting at 40 weeks too. This is my 5th pregnancy. I have had an experience simular to the one your talking about. I was left to go 3 weeks over due with my third child and then they decided to induce me. As for any tips about going into labour... well this is my 5th pregnancy and i have been over due with everyone of them. I have tried many different labour myths, and thats just how i see them as, myths. None of them worked for me...but then again.. who an i to say that they dont work at all.

goodluck
Steph

Know how you feel

hiya

feeling the exact same as yourself it's depressing isn ...
i've been drinking rasperry leaf tea since last sunday and still nothing. tonight i'm going to have a hot curry i really hope it works. good luck!!

Hiya

Hiya, i completely understand how your feeling, im 2 days over due... im having a membrane sweep on friday. all my midwife said was 'drink the rasberry leaf tea' 'walk loads,' 'eat fresh pineapple' and the best one of all- 'have lots of sex' (the stuff in the guys cum makes your cervix soften and allows your plug to go and then your cervix opens and contractions start)hope some of these ideas help you.
just to let you know... its 5 days over your due date, then they can do a sweep, and 2 weeks after your due date is when they can induce you. dont let them make you wait longer than you have to, i found the information out and i talked to my midwife bout it and now shes going by what i say too.
good luck.
steph & bump.

Membrane sweep on my due date

Hi im 40 weeks exactly on saturday and I am booked in to have my membrane sweep on the saturday. I was just wondering is that normal to have the sweep onmy due date?
Also how is this membrane sweep done? my partner is telling me all kinds of stories and I am getting nervous!!

Overdue and feeling blue!

Hello!

Today is my due date, and this is my second child. I'm hardly dialated, and am not having contractions. I was 41 1/2 weeks and induced for 3 days with my first-it was a miserable experience! I feel as though history is about to repeat itself, sadly. My midwife says they will induce me in one week from today, but I just want a natural birth-being induced with pitocin is extremely unpleasent because it sends you into hard labor and only gets worse until delivery. I have tried metemucil, bumpy car ride, belly dancing, nipple stimulation, walking, pineapple, and various other things-bottom line is baby won't come until he's ready. There's nothing to do but wait, after all this time, a week or two really isn't much longer. I definately can relate to the frustration though. Wish me luck, as I wish luck to all who have the same problem.

I know the feeling!

Hi there, I'm 36 weeks pregnant and i totally understand. This is my second child so i dont get much of a chance to rest. If its your first take every advantage of relaxing because when baby decides to arrive you wont get much time to do relaxing. I'm sure you will go before your induction date. I was 10 days late with my first and i went the night before my induction date. If you want to rush things along, i know you probarly can't be botherd right now but sex does work. Its something to do with the seamen. Give it a try, you might even enjoy it!

Week 40 and no baby!!

Hi, I know exactly how you feel. My due date was yesterday, coincidently with the life birth programme... I felt so strange watching all those lovely babies being born and hoping that at any minute that my waters would break. But no they didn't! I've had lots of braxton hicks but no show or anything else! I've been taking raspberry leaf for the past 3 weeks but alas it hasn't helped. Good luck with your tea, how's it taste! Any way good luck and I hope your baby comes soon.

Lots of lovely thoughts

Kerry
xx

Very fed up !!!!!!!!

i went into prem labour at 32+5 weeks and had every thing stopped by the hospital but was told not to go back to work as i would be lucky to make 37 weeks.
I have now been on mat leave for 7 weeks and am very bored as i have reached 40+1 weeks i was due yesterday and my midwife done my membrane sweep at home she also booked me for a consultant appt on tuesday with the possibility of being induced on thursday therefore 1 week over due.
the whole 7 weeks i have been off i have been in and out of hospital as my contractions keep starting and stopping so you can understand my frustration.
this is my second child and my first pregnancy was fantastic went into labour i day late had him 36 hours later with no drugs weighing 8lb 15oz just shows you that every pregnancy is very different i am really hoping i start soon as not keen on being induced.
if i was you i would push for that membrane sweep sooner.

Fed up being pregnant

hi i am 37 weeks pregnant, and already really fed up, so i know how u feel, a friend of mine had a bath in lavender oil, that seemed to do the trick

38 weeks and still no sign

how many weeks was your friend and have you tried it or any other ways of home induction?

38 = wks pregnant.

AM JUST OVA 38 WKS AND IVE HAD A SHOW, HAD CONTRACTIONS WHICH HAVE STOPPED. MY LAST BABY WAS PREM, AM SO FED UP NOW JUST WANT IT OVA N DONE WITH NOW. BUT NOT LONG TO GO. JUST KEEP THINKING WAT IM WAITING FOR N IT MAKES E FEEL BETTER. LOL. TIME WILL FLY BY AND BEFORE WE KNOW IT THE TIME WILL BE HERE, HIP HIP HORAY. LOL.

I'm italian....

and here in Italy I never heard anything like this......

Eky15+2

Membrane sweep

Hi all again,
Sorry changed my username slightly. Went for my membrane sweep today at the birth centre but unfortunately it couldn't be performed by the midwife as the neck of womb wasn't forward enough for the midwife to reach. She also explained the baby was lying in the back to back position (which he has been for a few weeks now and can be agonising at times as I feel lots of pressure on the bottom of my back)and that it was common for the womb to take longer coming forward apparently when babies lie in this position.
It was quite uncomfortable but bearable.
Got to go back weds now for a 2nd membrane sweep attempt. So fingers crossed again. If unsuccessful I can either wait 10 days after my due date or up to a maximum of 14 days to be induced but will have to go to the main hospital for this. They didnt give me the option of not being induced. Can I not be induced?
Regards jem

Did it hurt

Tomorrow is my due date and I don't ever feel like I am going to go into labor. When I went to the doctor three weeks ago I had dilated 2cm and I was thinking yes labor is near. But I went back last week and the doctor couldn't tell if I had dilated anymore. So I have an appointment for the 16th of July and God knows I don't want to be pregnant for another week. Bottom line my question is does the membrane sweep hurt??? I may end up getting that on Monday since I am going to be overdue. I know the doctor said she wants to check the fluid next week. I know this is done through an ultrasound. The funny think to is that I am having all the signs of labor. Mucus plug has been coming out, braxton hicks are become regular and stronger, and the baby has turned. Please let me know if the membrane sweep hurts.

Thanks, Kendra



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