Its it just me thats easy to ... of and up set

i dont no if im the only one that gets ... of with people passing comments on my bump but last night i was at a ann summers party and one of the games u has to play was in pairs u had to act out sex positions the girl i was with said to the rep our one was to hard ( coz u pick a card to tell u what one u do ) coz i was preg can we chance it the rep was fine but some other girl who i didnt even no said " she dont look that preg to me " it really up set me coz i think i have a nice little bump and im very proud of what i have and who the hell is she to pass comment im 18 weeks now how big am i ment to b ? now i fell like i should b bigger ad asking my self if the size of by bump is really ok she sounded like she was questioning me like she didnt belive me she also passed 2 other comments about me being preg that i thought were just as rude it really up set me is it just hormones or does all preg girls think like me im ... of really coz i just think who the hell r u to pass comment when she didnt even no me or spoke to me at all that night
sorry to moan maybe im just being silly
hope all well xxx

Thanks every one

thanks i feel alot better now just really needed the moan it up set me alot i can understand that she may have her problems but i did to i lost my first baby in aug 08 and i had trouble falling for this one and it up sets me coz i workied hard to get this baby lol annd i can just do with out some one saying these thigs to me i feel better now so thanks xx
hope ur all well im very excited right now coz i have started to feel tiny movements

Nah

It depends how it was said. I don't think she was actually having a go by saying maybe just passing comment but I wouldn't let it up set u. Who cares what someone who will never see ya again said. Ignore it and enjoy ur pregnancy. At least u don't know have folk randomoly touching u cause u have a huge bump and them constantly saying oh ull never go full term or u sure it just the one lol. I had that all through my last pregnancys. I hated it. I think big or small folk will ... u off ha ha
tc
kirsty

Hiya

it was a bit out of order what she said, especially when she doesnt even know you.
now im not sticking up for her but i know that when i was ttc, (no-one knew we were ttc), i had to stop myself from feeling envious towards pg women, then again i would have never passed comments that she did tho. maybe her and partner are having trouble ttc themselves, maybe she has had a loss.
it was still harsh what she said but end of the day, you enjoy your bump and sod what anyone else says. im same at the mo, one minute i can be fine then the next i could cry buckets over the daftest things, lol
tc and enjoy your growing bump
sarah 17+6 xxx

Hey hun

you have every right to be upset and don't feel silly. hormones are funny things so just take t easy.
that girl had no right to have a go at you she's prob just jealous that you are pg who knows. she's just being a stupid, selfish cow, so you rant all you like.

your bump is just perfect no matter wot other people say it's your baby bump not theirs they don't know wot they are talking about so i know it's hard at times but just try and ignore them there are just petty minded.

love and hugs
sherri
xxxx

Hey hun

Dont let her remarks upset you, I didnt have a particularly large bump too start with, I loved the fact it was compact, better that way then too get too big and struggle.
You enjoy it. xx
Adele(B&T)