19 pregnant and dont know what to do

i recently split from my boyfriend who i have been with for over a year when we split i met some one else and have been dateing him for a month i have recently found out i am pregnant with my new boyfriend i have no idea what to do and i have no one to talk to my ex still rings saying he loves me and i can not bring my self to tell him that i am with some one else and am pregnant also my new boyfriend has already got a child and i no he doesnt what any more kids i carnt talk to my best friend as she is releted to my ex i no i will have to let people no soon and i no it will cause my ex a lot of hart ach i carnt talk to my new boyfriend about this as i no he has made hes mind up i dont no what to do or what to think has any one got any advice for me i would be greatful

Thanks for all your advice

I defo no my new bfs the dad because my ex is in jail and has been for over a year iv told my new bf about the baby and he doesnt want to keep it but i do

Hi there

just a thought, if you have only been this new guy a month how do you know the baby is definately his?
don't wanna throw a spanner in the works but have you worked that one out? last period date etc?
i dont really know what advise to give only that you will need to book in with gp and midwife to get a scan date booked etc to find out how far you are etc.
take care and it is only fair to let the father know.
good luck
xx

I agree!

I really think you need to think about your dates, unless you slept with the new guy before you got together or there was a long gap between you sleeping with either of them the baby is prob your ex's not the new partner...

Good luck,

Ems xx

Hello

hi i would just like to say congrats its great news bit of bad timing maybe but some times thats good i think u need to talk to ur bfs and work things out at end of day u got a baby to think of now if ur new bf really likes u he will find it hard but if he wants to stay with u he will get used to the fact that ur having a baby and ur old bf may want u back ( not sure if this good thing ) but if he does u need to think on who u want to b with and if he dont then he will prob still want to b good dad so u will need to chose who u want or if u dont want them then single mums do a great job so dont let that put u of just think whats best for u and ur baby and follow ur heart hope this helps let me no haw u get on
xx