hi im new to this and just wanted a bit of advice,i had a baby in 2001 at 26 weeks unfortunately she passed away anyway me and my husband have been trying for 2 years to get pregnant i was told i had pcos.we had a delayed miscarriage in march this year unfortunately at 11 weeks at the first scan the baby didnt have a heart beat and now i am worried sick it will happen again.
help how likely do think i will miscarry again im waiting a scan date but they dont seem to rush do they? (fingers crossed)it will all be ok.

what do you think?

i just want to tell you its very important to love your child and not to be afraid i know its hard but try to enjoy it cause your baby is feeling now inside you. If you had miscarriages it does not mean you want have babies, anyway hope you make it this time...

Hi, I have pcos too and had to take metformin for the first 14 weeks. I was worried and even now not fully letting myself enjoy being pregnant. My husband and I were trying for 7 years on and off (would have totally insane without a break).

Anyway another thing that may help will be a low GI diet, apparently it's now recommended for us pcos sufferers. Quite hard to do but I'll do anything after all these years.

Good luck.
Lex
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hi just read your message thanks i too have been taking metformin i was told i could stop at 12 weeks, i had it will be okscan today and i was told i was only 9 weeks gone so i have to keep taking the metformin and try to keep myself relaxed and stuff easier said than done the baby looked healthy its heart was beating well this time so fingers crossed

hi hun that message brought bak memories 4 me as i have had 2 misscarriages and i am now currently 12 weeks preg again i heard that it doesnt always mean that u will have another misscarriage. i hope all goes well 4 u. xx
xx GUD LUK xx

hi, i dont really know hun as i havnt been through it myself but im pretty sure they class 12 weeks+ as being the 'safe zone' so if you have got to 12 weeks then hopefully you should be fine

vicki x

your post just had tears rolling down my cheeks!!!i'm very emotional at the moment
you have just described one of my worst fears, i had a miscarriage at twelve weeks last year and although it was a very upsetting time i hadn't felt the baby move or heard the heartbeat. i'm now almost eighteen weeks and i am so paranoid, i've had several problems with bleeding etc but really wory about losing it again as i've alreay become attached feeling movements and hearing the heartbeat every day. i've looked up on miscarriage until it comes out of my ears and they all say that you're no more likely to have another than anyone else. i really hope everything works out for you and i'm sure that it will, just keep thinking positive, if you ever want to chat just send a message xxxxx

hi im sorry for not replying sooner hope everything is going well with the pregnancy im sure it is i cant wait to get to that stage of feeling it wiggle about.ive heard from the hospital(finally) i have a scan this friday so im hoping everything will be ok i think it will be all the symptoms say so my belly rirght at the bottom seems more rounder, i know probably imagining it but still makes me smile.

hope you is feeling well. speak soon x x