can anyone out there tell me if it is normal to panic. i'm 11 weeks i don't know all my exact dates yet scan in two weeks, but last night i was up all night in a panic about things that didn't even happen. like fearing that i have done something wrong when i know i haven't done what i think i have. does that make sence? oh please someone tell me if this is normal i feel like i have a guilty con but i really haven't!!! i was sweating and had to get out of bed and come down stairs. i still feel shaky this morning. is this normal? please help!i'm telling my family today so it could be that but why am i questioning myself? i've never ever cheated on my partner so why do i feel like i have to worry the babies not his and really stupid things like that? pleasse help.

welcome to pregnancy!!! you know i actually thought something stupid like that too? I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he is the only man i have ever been with and i thought imagine the babies not his? lolol .. its your hormones racing and the reality and axiety of 'OH MY GOD I AM HAVING A BABY!' it is completely normal! good luck .. love danielle

Hello, Its a very stressful time and your homones are all over the place. I'm sure things will settle down after you've had your scan. It will put your mind at rest. Remember that what your thinking isnt rational, you havent cheated and you havent done anything wrong, it's just your mind working overtime.

Try and relax, discuss it with your partner and midwife I'm sure you will be reassured by them and at least he'll be aware, maybe it will help you with your unecessary guilty feelings. I'm sure things will calm down soon.

I hope this helps honey. Sarah. xx