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Posted by ireland22 8 July at 13:38
hi,
just found out i'm pregnant, goin 2 c doc 2 get it confirmed this week, the trouble is thta i'm goin home 2 ireland 4 a wedding party and all my family will b there, i don't want 2 tell anyone yet, at least not 4 another few weeks anyway, but i also don't want 2 take a drink either and they will b wondering why i'm not drinking, and most of my family know that i was trying 4 a baby so they will suss me out straight away, how will i get out of this without them finding out????? and i have 2 go 2 the party, so thats out the window!
i know they will c right through me but won't have the cop on just 2 say nothing!!
please please someone advise me, how did the rest of uz keep it from ur family till u were ready????????
thanks xx
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| Messages: | | "2 weddings & a 60th birthday"
Posted by pippy1979 9 July at 09:51
I've been to all the above whilst between 5-8 weeks pregnant. I've not wanted to tell anyone either. I'm a big drinker and panicked as it was going to be so obvious that I wasn't drinking.
The best thing I've found is that nearly all places (really surprisingly as I never would have thought it) sell non-alcoholic beer. Problem sorted. One of the weddings was in Ireland so am sure you'll find it where you are going.
Good luck being sneaky!
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| | "Hiya"
Posted by reesy 8 July at 13:52
Why dont you just tell them you're on antibiotics or have had a water infection, that way you can drink plenty of soft drinks with no one suspecting.
I'm rubbish at keeping thisngs from my family so it just came out straight away. I hope you do better than me. Good luck.
Sarah. xx
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| | "Hi"
Posted by ireland22 8 July at 14:44
yes i actually thought of that, maybe a urine infection or ear infection??
i work in a chemist and could easily make up a label 2 put on a tablet bottle!!
i just need 2 get past my co-workers??
this whole lying thing is bloody hard, i just know that i will f*** it up!!
thanks 4 the help x
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| | "Tell them you're being healthy for ttc"
Posted by popsy25 9 July at 11:13
Perhaps sail a little closer to the wind, if they know you're TTC already? You could tell them that you're detoxing to get ready for pregnancy - don't have to say you've already achieved it! lol. If they know you're planning to make it happen, then they will believe you.
Otherwise, I'd go for either antibiotics, or tell them you had a headache travelling there and have dosed up on painkillers and don't want to mix it.
Good luck - and congrats! x
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