Heya, im 16 and 3 months pregnant. I have a 2 year old already, have just got my life back on track having lost my mum to breast cancer. I live with my dad, who seperated from my mum when i was 5. He is great with asháa (my daughter) and looks after her in the evenings while i go to night school. So i do get an education. I am really after some advice as I don't no whether to keep this baby or not. I know I would love t and everything, but im 16, and got a life to live and find it difficult already. What do you think i should do? Please help!

Skyelah

A.she doesnt even exist if u read!B who the F**k are u to tell people if they have a termination they are sick??? GROW UP and join the real world! some people cannot cope with a baby/pregnancy/birth/adoption i dont care what anyone says abortions are the best way sometimes. whats the point in bringing a human in2 the world 2 b misserable if they dnt no there birth parents? what do u think thats like? or there mum just had them cus they felt they had to cus people like YOU make them feel bad for having a termination???

in 1 post she sed she was preg with twins in another is sed from skyeleh and BUB not 2! lIAR

on the last site she told everyone her mum and dad died in a car crash.and her sisters then she sed she was in care.then her baby bro died.then she had a prem baby in less thn 3 hrs.refused c section. she has a weird imagination, she also made up her friend had a baby at 14 called skyleh and her TWINS wer calld ashaa an sumin els.shes a total weirdo an i know its her cus i added her n it came up with alredy added!!

If anyone want to know the truth add her msn adress which youll find in other posts, i knew i recognised her shes a local troll from another site.if you click view profile youll see shes 12 yrs old!no mention of children and i have spoken to her before believing she was real!!!!dont be fooled by the troll!

You had a baby at fourteen, Okay everyone's entitled to one mistake. You turn sixteen and you get pregnant again????? What's the matter with you? Didn't you learn the first time round? Then to top it all you want to kill your baby! I think you should have thought about that before you opened your legs again! I'm sorry to be so cruel, but that's life and you will learn that as you get older!!!
Please do not kill your baby, he/she has a right to the life that he/she has already got. If you are really mature enough and you realise you can't cope with two, you can have the second adopted, you can still keep in touch via letter on most occasions! But whatever you decide, Please don't be an idiot and do this again. My friend has now got six kids from different partners, yet is still on her own!

Im sorry but you say you want to go to uni!how the hell are you expecting to pay for this???you cant work with 2 kids not enough to pay for uni anyway! i think u r very un educated and need to rethink!!!

i'm gonna say this the best way i know how:

don't do what "feels right" because it suits your schedule. you got pregnant and now you have to face the consequences. be responsible for the life in you right now. adoption is better than abortion. please think about this. yes you're young but you can MAKE IT!!!!! my mom made it!!! and she had 4 kids by the age of 20. i would be crushed to have known my real mom was out there somewhere. i understand that's it's scary and supporting a baby, 2 babies is a great task, but i know you can do it. sometimes you have to sacrafice your goals and take up responsiblities. it takes to to tango! be the bigger person and keep your bundle of joy. there is hope and there is support!

with love and hope,
a stranger

Hey again,
I have decided that I am going to keep the baby, I can manage. I am so young, but by the time that I am 18/19 wanting to go to university, hopefully they will be in school and in nursery.
I spoke to my dad about it, and he is so supportive, he said that he will look after them whenever he can, also, hopefully the baby's dad will chip in a little bit.
I am gona stay around, thanks again.
Skyelah, Asháa and unborn baby

ive been in your same situation, i had a baby at 16 which was hard but i got my life back on track. then near my 19th birthday i fell pregnant it was a complete shock but i knew it would be so wrong. took the right path for me and had an abortion even though im against them. now i no it was for the best. i have a 9 month old now which i waited another 4 years for ( im 23 now ) and it was the right decision. what im saying is you have your whole life ahead of u stop having kids and be your own person u are only 16 u dont know who u are yet, im 23 and im only just growing up now!!!

Giving a baby up for adoption is one of the hardest things any mother could possibly do, it all depends on your stability as a mother, and what is fair to the child, if right now you are having problems, then maybe it would be a good idea to give it up...for the baby's sake, but think how this will feel on you, you will forever be thinking about the child that you mothered, and is out there somewhere not even aware of your existance....that can do alot of emotional harm to yourself....but if its best for the baby..There is alot ot consider! I hope I ahve helped a little bit.

Hi sweety, I am not going to sit here and tell you what is best for you, because deep down only you know that. But I can share my experience with you. I am now 22, and have been with my partner for 5 years. 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. My mum was over the moon, but my partner and his mum had other ideas. I was being told different things from all different sides. This really put a stress on me and i gave into my partner and his mothers pressure to have a termination.this was a hasty decision, and altough i WILL NOT say that i regret doing it, I do wish that i could have just made the decision for myself. Of course i think about what would have been, but i now have a bright future ahead of me and my career has really taken off. I know in a year or so we WILL be ready for children, but just make sure the decision is your own, based on what you feel is right.Goodluck sweetie, and i hope you take heed.
P.S. Just make sure you seek professional advice from the practice nurse at your doctors surgery if you really dont know what to do

Somewhere, deep down, you know what is right for you. Take some time and space to listen to your inner voice - and don't let your thoughts get bullied by what you might worry is 'right' - it doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you. Good Luck! When you come to the 'right' decision you will know it - you'll feel unburdened by everyone's expectations (including your own!).

PS I know, I know - easy to say - hard to do! I wish you best of luck and a clear mind and heart.

Hi first I want to say sorry about your mom thats got to be hard.My favorite aunt is going to the doctors today to find out if she has breast cancer or not.I hope she doesn't but i guess I will find out later on today.I was 15 when i got pregnant with my daughter Alexis who is my world.She was born 2 day after my 16 birthday.Happy Birthday right?lol....Now I am 19 and 32 weeks pregnant with a lil boy due Nov.11. Your dad seems to be a great father unlike mine who won't talk to me when I call him.My boyfriend is so happy and that makes it more exciting for me because I was 4 sure freaking and Alexis's dad was such an a~hole I thought he would turn out to be the same way.Boy was i wronge her asked me to move in with him and he is a better dad to Alexis more than her own father is.Soon maybe next year we want to get married unles he ... me off from now until then lol.I hope you make the right decision for you and your unborn child.I can't sit here and tell you how hard it is to be a mother but at the end it pays off because you already know.Good lucky on this journey we call life good lucky sweet~d!