i now how you feel.
i am 24 weeks now and my partner shows no interest in the pregnancy.
i bought a heart moniter to listen in ourselves and as he missed the midwife appointment where first heard the heart beat i thought he would be really excited about hearing it. i first used the moniter on a sunday and it wasnt until the following thursday he asked to hear it.

also now how you feel on the intimacy issue, partner doesnt come near me anymore as if he's done his job and thats it.
we are also having a little girl and no i dont think your being oversensitive unless i am as well.
hope this made you feel a little better.

Adele and Ellie(my bump )

Hi Mums to be and bumps.

Just need to have a whinge and i feel really selfish moaning compared to others peoples problems but i just need to get it off my chest as this site has been a god send to me.
My boyfriend isnt very supportive and its been like this on and off for the past 22 weeks of my pregnancy.
Id just like him to show a bit of affection towards me, we dont kiss or cuddle anymore let alone any extra activities (not that im really in the mood for that).I feel really unattractive and he dosent help when he calls me "TUBS"
Since we found out we are having a precious little girl he showed a little more intrest but that only lasted a week.
He never asks how im feeling, just complains that im always tired. We dont do anything or go anywhere and im just feeling fed up today more than usual.

Ive told him how i feel but he dosent understand.
Im so excited about having our little girl i just wish he was a bit more supportive and share this wonderfull experience with me. Maybe im being over sensitive?

Any other mums to be feel like this?

xx

my partner is the same. hes says am moaning all the time and that there is something always wrong with me. he stresses me out ALOT! he threw a strop yesterday because his tea wasent ready and the stress of the argument caused me to have a nose bleed. (i have never had nose bleeds before)

he is never interested in the pregnancy and when i take him baby shopping he just complains. he too was excited and interested for about a week after my 20wk scan cos we are having a little girl too.

he always calls me fatty! his mum went up the wall with him cos i had lost some weight from not eating properly.

i think it depends what mood he is in. this morning he was nice and was talking to bump. (i think it scared him a bit when he caused the nose bleed yesterday)

it didnt help that i was really worried has i had not felt bump move properly from saturday morning.

we are having a 4D scan done on sunday but he doesnt seem excited. he keeps saying to me that he thinks i have got depression.

all i want is cuddles and kisses. why doesnt he understand! i get really jealous cos he gives the dog (which is having pups) more attention than me!

take care
stacey n 26+5wk bump xx

i now how you feel.
i am 24 weeks now and my partner shows no interest in the pregnancy.
i bought a heart moniter to listen in ourselves and as he missed the midwife appointment where first heard the heart beat i thought he would be really excited about hearing it. i first used the moniter on a sunday and it wasnt until the following thursday he asked to hear it.

also now how you feel on the intimacy issue, partner doesnt come near me anymore as if he's done his job and thats it.
we are also having a little girl and no i dont think your being oversensitive unless i am as well.
hope this made you feel a little better.

Adele and Ellie(my bump )

totally know how you feel.
my boyfriend couldnt give a toss, never wanted me to keep the baby and still to this day goes on about how i should have had an abortion.
does really annoy me, because like you say yours doesnt understand when told him how you feel same with mine. mine never asks how baby is, but does ask how i am, like baby doesnt exsist...
men are just pure idoits at times! dont understand us women what we have go through, but i get its my own fault because i wanted to keep the baby, but that wasnt the case, doesnt even understand that.

im very glad i have my family and my friends given me all the support i need and i have some great laughs with family and friends.
not being over sensitive at all.

leighannex2
27wk5dy