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"What did you do?" Posted by tweetypie83 25 October at 20:25
You say you dont want to lose the baby but yet you then say do i get rid of it?
Please tell us what you did? i hope you told your boyfriend he was way out of order for even suggesting you try to lose the baby.
I have had a miscarrage and it was a very difficult time for and for my boyfriend.
I hope you didnt do something silly.
Take care
Zoe and 13wk+4day bump
xx
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"What????" Posted by lynni298 25 October at 20:18
if you dont want your baby then you should go through propper proceedures, going on a ride to hope for miscarriage is an awful thing to do...you could end up with a seriously disabled child as well as damaging yourself. i had a miscarriage last year and can honestly say i have never felt pain like it ever both physically and emotionaly. at the end of the day you have all the time in the world to go on rides, you only get one chance to carry your baby.
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"Erm?" Posted by spurgie 25 October at 14:03
i dont usually criticise what people write on these forums as people are of course entitled to their opinions, but i cannot believe i just read that. if you are old enough to get yourself into a situation where you are pregnant, then take repsonsibility for it.
just say you dont feel well and you dont want to go on the rides. the others are hardly gonig to drag you on by your hair.
kelly and 23+6 peanut.
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"Cant believe what i am reading!" Posted by rach17842 25 October at 12:50
why dont you pop over to the expecting forum and read some of the the posts over there! some have been trying 21 to concieve and your pregnant and your so called boyfriend is trying to get you to go on rides so you loose the baby!
i dont know how old you are but im guessing you must be pretty young. think you need to go and speak to someone ie doc and make a decision about what you are doing.
and you dont HAVE to go you just tell everyone you dont want to go!
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"Oopps.." Posted by rach17842 25 October at 12:51
that should say.....
trying 21 months to concieve
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"Ooh yeah" Posted by kirst87 25 October at 11:38
Your boyfriend shouldnt be pressurising you into going on rides in the hope that you loose the baby. Miscarriage is an awful thing to go through and its not right to try and make it happen. Dont go on the rides if you dont want to...go on a little one then when you get to the next one say you are feeling sick and dont fancy it! Its really easy to get out of with a couple of fibs...specially if you dont want people to know!
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"What?????" Posted by jojohants 25 October at 11:31
did i read this correct?my boyfriend wants me to go so i do get rid of it but i dont.
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"Dont go!!" Posted by staceymy 25 October at 09:26
the first 12wks of your pregnancy are the most important. all your babys organs etc are forming. you could lose the baby if you decide to go on the rides. why dont you fake illness??
hope you make the right decision stacey n 29+6wk bump xx
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"Hey" Posted by leighannex2 24 October at 23:44
obv you shouldnt go on rides when pregnant as states on the boards to the rides, and everyone has differnt views on the bad things that could happen, others believe it to be fine, as not far gone.
no-one can be 100% sure nothing will happen, as everyones body deals with things differently.
if i had known i was pregnant, i wouldnt have gone on half stuff i did at alton towers, i would have been around 15weeks.
at the end of the day your choice
leighannex2 30week6dy
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