Hi there,

2 hours ago I found out I was pregnant, and Im not sure if I want to be, Im 22 and in a 3 year relationship but I wouldn't say it was for life, we are up and down a lot even though I love him dearly! He doesn't know yet but will at 5.30pm tonight. I am petrified he will shout and leave me even though I am un decided what I want to do. Is there anyone that is in my situation that can relate to what I have said as I need to talk to someone my mum and dad are away abroad for a week so its just me and Im so scared...

Please help me anyone..

its okay to b frightened but what you have to remember is that its not the lil babys fault.im sure ur partner will b understandin my pregnancy was unplanned but welcomed and now im 15 weeks and cant wait.
do u have any idea of how far along u r?
good luck with it all
lucy x

Hi, just read your message, how are you? Were you brave enough to tell your boyfriend. I was with my boyfriend for just over 4 years, we lived together & at the age of 22 i also found out i was pregnant. When i told my boyfiend he left me. I was so so scared but went ahead and had my baby. I went through the pregnancy & birth alone & have been a single mum to my son for the past 10 years. The father of my son changed his mind & contacted me after the birth & although we never got back together he see's our son regularly and is a fantastic dad. Guess he was just scared at the time too! Whether the father of my son had changed his mind or not having my little boy was the best thing i ever did ( saying that i have also been in the situation again and chose the opposite route ) so if you would like to talk some more then please contact me again x

Thank you for your reply kezza8 its good to know that im not the only one as you do feel very alone in this situation. I spoke to my boyfriend and we have both agreed it is not the right time for us, we don't have our own place, and it wouldn't be fair to go through with it. I have been through hell the past 2 days and have to live each day pregnant till next Monday when it will be gone, I am upset but its for the best and I am lucky to have to support of my boyfriend and parents. Its tough but its life and I'll deal with it...thanks again xx

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