just needing some answers asap, im quite worried i cant tell anyone, im 17 and im not coping very well with the stresses of pregnancy. its wanted but im feeling lonely and need to ask someone whos experianced this before x

hi hun, im online now, i had a little girl 2 weeks ago, are you ok? whats bothering you chick, its completely normal to feel like this, i miscarried my first pregnancy and completely understand how anxious you can feel whilst pregnant, i was totally convinced i'd lost this baby too but she's here now and doing well. dont be alone hun there are lots of people on here with good experience and advice...i couldn't have got through my 9 months without this forum! im here if you want to chat, sending hugs to you x x x x x

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you dont know, well you probably do know how good it feels to talk to people maybejust as insane as me, i know peopel arent going to agree with the fact im only 17, but they dont need to reply i suppose.
everythigns worrying me, i keep thinking karmas goign to get me back, and you know cause no one knows - im not doing myself any favours because they arent going easy, my boobs feel smaller but they still fit (and burst) out of my bras- am i being paranoid?
how do i know what im feelings the baby? you know, i jsut dont know these things.
congratulations on your daughter glad it went fine:$ feeling a bit silly now.. not silly enough to drop it though.. what do you think?

you're not being silly at all hun, its all you're hormones that are making you feel like that, ok so you feel guilty about the abortion and its obviously eating away at you but at the time it was a decision you had to make, its hard and you'll never ever forget it but this is a new pregnancy and you will be fine. you may not be feeling the baby often yet...i didn't feel it properly till 20 weeks dont let it worry you. have you spoken to a midwife about how you are feeling? she may be able to offer some support or advice. just keep talking and dont bottle things up.
hope you're feeling better soon hun x x x

who cares if your 17. if your mature enough you can do this like any other mother to be.
i was 17 when i found out, turned 18 last month.

leighannex2
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i think so too. im just scared hows everything going.. boy or girl wht youy having ?

im scared aswell, but good thing is coming out of it. just gotta be postive.
i dont know kept it a surprize

go to your inbox, i have sent you a private message.

do you family not know your pregnant?

no they dont, i had an abortion, i dont want to tell people this is my baby. i know i have to but i'll have to share her forever. i know i sound stupid, but im so scared im losing her all the time, i keep thinking shes just going to die in there and i cant stop it from happening im so scared, i dont know if im feeling her move or anything, i feel things move in there and i dont know if its her, or my imagination, i spotted a bruise on my tummy and im worried because im having slight pains, im just really so scared its going to die.
all i can think of is diets and getting her five a day in, im just so worried, pl;ease reply soon x

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