it makes me stress so much! he told me a couple months ago that he wouldnt mind having a baby...and i felt different..so i told him to use protection but then my grandmother passes away and i was so depressed and we had sex less than usual..and then my stomatch swelled and i was two weeks late on my period so i took a test and went to the doctors both came out positive and since i told him hes been acting different with me...hes like up and down about it..during the day its like he hates me for being pregnant but at night he wants to be close to me ...whats his problem?..i dont know is he scared or what?.. how did your boyfriend or husband react????

You must try not to stress and worry too much cause the stress affect your baby, so just relaz and instead of worrying try to talk open wit you bouyfriend why he is reacting like he is.
Many men do get scared at the beggining and unsecure but anyway they are are coming to love and care for their babies when they are coming to the world.
How old is your bf?
If he is very young then it is very mormal tat he is scared cause the father hood is a serious and a responsible "job" but I am sure that every thing would be ok.
Good luck.

I have been with my husband for over 11 years, but only married since June. We got pregnant one month later. It is a life changing event for everyone. My husband was excited, but scared and nervous about the changes ahead. It took him a good 3 weeks to a month to get used to the idea that we are having a baby. I even have thoughts of how is this all going to work out. Things will be fine in the end. Good Luck!

in my opinion, men react totally different than women...especially if it wasnt a planned pregnancy. i think he'll come around, he probably just doesnt know how to react right now. try talking to him and letting him know how you feel and that you need his support thru this. im sure everything will work out for the best. good luck!

When I told the father of my oldest that i was pregnant he wasnt very happy about it.... theres a huge long story here that i wont get into but it was quite a struggle and our relationship didnt survive the pregnancy. Athough 8 years later he nows my best and very active in his sons life , it wasnt always so. When I told my husband that i was pregnant and he shook abd cried, and just got all messed up emtionally, but he accepted it rather right away. (although he had been telling me for two weeks that i was pregnant but i was denial), then when i told him i was pregnant again he was happy but exccepted it rather quickly, whne i told him i was pregnant 5 months after our daughetr was born, he lost it pacing and crying, and just didnt knwo when to do with himself, but a few months later things were alot better. And when he found out 3 weeks ago that i was pregnant again (he was there and the results the same time i did) he just started off in space and didnt say anything. We are just starting to talk about it , but theres alot of hostility, not at me or the baby but just in general because of the situation (was sappose to have my tubes tied in march) but I cant hardly blame him cuz im not thrilled about this either, although I knwo im already coming around to it. If I wasnt I wouldnt be posting on here. =)