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"Any body elses husband/fella delveloped a phobia to sex?"
Posted by mrsxmoo 23 January  at  21:02

Well mine bloody well has, talk about not touching me with a 10ft bardge pole, its more like the Humber Bridge between us now!!
He's under the impression that his "do dar" is going to course some kind of damage,as if its 12 inches long...

All I get is not yet when we..get past 3months, Im trying to explain to him that Ill be dried up and full of cobwebs by then, but no, hes not having any of it.

Is any one else in the same boat or been there, because this is just pure hell...hes even avoiding mega cuddles and kisses to stop himself from getting carried away..talk about self preservation, this mans got it down to a tee...

HELP....
Mrs Moo xxx
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"No but..."
Posted by minnietheminx1 25 January  at  14:56

i bloody well wish he would, im really not in the mood for sex now im just way too tired, but hubby is randier than ever. (think ill buy him some inflatables lol)

emma+dot14wks
"And mine!!!"
Posted by josieb32 25 January  at  14:48

Hi,

My OH was fine until last Friday and I read a bit out of a pregnancy book saying "baby probably enjoys it as much as you..." I know its not meant in the sexual way but all the bobbing around stuff but never mind - NO MORE FOR ME NOW!!! Wish I had kept my mouth shut! I just don't think I can go for another 4 and a bit months or so without any - anything would be nice, ha ha!!!

Just wanted to say you're not on your own..!!! Wish I could say it gets better but for me its got worse, non-existent to be exact!!

Hope your pregnancy goes smooth, take care.

Jo + blue bump 20wks + 3 days
"Weel"
Posted by amiebrown1990 25 January  at  11:13

ive gone off it in all honesty... but i still want it ? i suppose i just want to be close really lol xx
"Hey"
Posted by chelle19 24 January  at  10:23

mine was the same at first he said he wanted to wait 3 months well it never lasts hun they cave way before that and us women have the power of purswation i was crafty i asked for a relaxing massage and well we all no where a massage leeds haha.

shell&16wk bean xx
"Yes i know where you're coming from"
Posted by lilacbreeze 24 January  at  10:06

My OH has put a stop to sex.
Mind you I had 2 weeks of spotting and bleeding so he was worried that having sex could cause problems for me.
I get my early scan today, so hopefully if everything is ok, we might get back to normal in the bedroom. We haven't had it for nearly 4 weeks!!! No wonder we're both tetchy!! LOL
Sarah
"I don;t understand"
Posted by nicki313 24 January  at  11:08

how you women cope! my sex drive has gone through the roof even though im still feeling about as desirable as a wet fish.my hubby isn;t bothered either way i usually find giving him a cuddle and letting my hands roam when hes half asleep does the trick if hes not in the mood and he soon wakes up * no pun intended* i know some men get funny maybe you should blatently ask the midwife or dr infront of him so he can hear for himself that its not harmfull well unless your well rather into s &m etc lol
"Glad"
Posted by chelle19 24 January  at  11:36

to hear im not the only one whos sex drive has gone up i have a high one anyway so does oh it calmed down in the first 12wks but its back now and im loving it as its sooo sensetive compared to none pg ! x




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