My mum's just been round, and I've had an argument with her and told her to get out of the house and she's gone.

To fill you all in, I quit smoking before I fell pregnant the last time, but started again when I miscarried (which was stupid I know).

When I got the BFP this time I quit again, but my Mum wont let it drop and she's adamant that I'm still smoking.

I would never dream of putting my baby at any risk whatsover if I could help it. I want this baby more than anything in the world and it upsets me the thought that anybody (especially my Mum) would think otherwise.

I hate arguing with her, shes my best friend, and I know she'll probably call me in a couple of hours and it'll be forgotten about, but I'm sat here in tears and I'm already worrying like crazy about everything anyway, especially since I have stopped feeling nauseus and think this might be a sign that I've miscarried.

So sorry about this huge essay, I'm just so upset.

Lu xx

Is it worth giving your mum a call first just to put your mind at rest?

I know it is mean of your mum not to believe you, maybe you could explain thats what upset you the most? especially at a time like this when you are soo emotional to begin with.

I was too worrying about signs of pregnancy disappearing having also suffered a miscarriage previously. I was at the ward at least once a week as I was soo paranoid, if you are worried hun go to your nearest maternity ward, they have a section that is a bit like open ward when you can listen to heartbeat etc to put you at ease.

hope this helps

loads of hugs

Claire xx

firstly stop worrying you havent m/c because u no longer feel sick symtoms do go hun,

secondly im sure your mum will go home and calm down and ring you later it prob feels 10 times worse because of your hormoanes, when she does ring just explain your views on smoking im sure she will take note nxt time.

shell&18+2 girl bump xxx

Thanx, I think my hormones are making me more emotional than normal lol.

I just feel really guilty that she'd only been here less than 10 minutes after having to spend 45 minutes on the bus (not counting how long she had to wait for one in the first place cos she lives practically in the sticks), and then had to go all the way back again. And she has a really bad back etc.

I always feel guilty about everything lol. I feel like such a cow though.

The nausea thing is really worrying me though, but I think its more to do with having the miscarriage last time.

My boobs are still sore and constantly tired and eating like pig so maybe I am just worrying for nothing.

I go see the MW tomorrow so I'll mention it to her.

Thanx again, Lu xx

Hi lu just seen your message sorry havent had a chance to reply to you privately for some reason i still cant reply keep coming up with error .

Sounds like your going through it at the moment .

Dont worry about your mum mate its probably because of your hormones that your taking more things to heart than you would do normally ..trust me i gave hubby an ear bashing the other night for 2 solid hours over frigging cat food ..lol ...poor thing

like you i with the misscarriage last April i am a little bit scared of it happening again you have just got to try and chill out and say to yourself ...this is a totally different pregnancy and a different baby ...my boobs hurt one min then they dont but it just happeneds like that ...im sickie one minute not actually throwing up but i literally have to eat something every 2 hours or i feel as though i am going to chuck any minute ...

You;ve have done the right thing giving up smoking .dont worry about whats been concern yourself with being healthy and happy now ...

cheer up your having a baby xxxxxxxxx its all good keep in touch
love netty xxx

ps got my midwife appointment on 19th feb ...am nervous about the scan but excited too

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I'm so glad you sent this msg lol, I've been worried about you with not hearing anything.

Glad everythings going OK. I've just been to see the Midwife today for my booking in appointment. She was lovely (I was expecting a right dragon lol with what some of the other girls have said about theres lol).

I was supposed to be getting my scan last Monday, but the consultant wanted to wait a few more weeks in the end, so I go on 18th Feb. I can't wait, but nervous at the same time too lol.

Oh and the Mum thing....she called me a couple of hours later saying "Have your hormones calmed down yet then"?? Lol. She just ignores me when I go into one haha.

Anyhow did you get my email address? Ya'll have to mail me when you get chance.

Take care, Me xxxx