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| Thread started by: | "Should i worry about the mother in law's reaction??" Posted by kelly1204 27 December at 05:55
my guy just told his mom yesterday, that i'm pregnant. her reply was what no way, i havent met her yet. you guys need to come and visit me or i need to come up there and see you guys. my guy said she is happy for us, at least she is. i'm not to sure about his dad and his stepmom.
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| Messages: | | "Re: "should i worry about the mother in law's reaction??"" Posted by mysweetie 16 January at 10:40
No worries, not all mother in laws are bad congrat!
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| | "Not all mother in-laws are bad" Posted by pregnesia 27 December at 10:07
not all mother-in-laws are monsters, alot but not all and sometimes you may have some great times with her when she sees that your little tummy growing she could actually be very happy. I am happy for you and you partner - I mean this is going to be your child not your mother-in-laws - so dont start worrying about that!
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| | "I know how you feel" Posted by missy892 27 December at 08:08
I am only 17 and found out on boxing day this year that I am pregnant. My 20 year old Fiance is over the moon, but we're both scared. We used protection all the time no matter what. My mother lives on the other side of the state and I called her a few hours after i found out, and she was shocked but she is also kinda happy. She's a midwife and she loves kids, so having her own grandchild to get clucky over is making her very happy. We currently live with my fiance's mum, and we still haven't told her. She was pregnant with twins at 17 and she ended up with 6 kids. She loves every single one of them, and she's told me she would love to have more, but not actually have to go through the whole pregnancy thing herself. I think the mother in law's reaction is a big thing, just as your own mother's reaction. If she's not happy, just wait until you have the baby, and when she see's the little face, she will go absolutely ga ga. And if she's happy already about it, well, that's the best thing ever. He's dad and step mother are similar situations. How you take it i think would depend on how much your man and his father interact with each other.
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| | "L know how u feel" Posted by shorty02 20 January at 05:38
hi there lam 19 and lam with a 34 yr old lam now 10 weeks pregant and well before l was pregant his mum and me got on and we talked alot and we got on. we got to her place and told her we were expecteing and now she just wont talk to me at all. she is blaming me while my bf is saying that he is happy and never been this happy before to that she replys she is a ... and u should not be there in her life my opion to should what they feel matter is "if u and the dadys father is sure u want this at this moments in ur lifes and u both are happy thats all that matters as u 2 will look and raise this kid so if u r happy and its what u want then go a head and dont worry about either family or friends reactions.
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| | "Thanks for the advice" Posted by kelly1204 29 December at 05:30
my guy's mom seems happy about it and my parents are happy about it too. its just his dad's and his stepmom's reaction has me a little worried. but he says that they are ok with it. they just need to get over the shock. me and kyle have been togeather for 10 months now. we want to get marryed. i used to date this guy named johnnie before i met kyle. johnnie basically treated me ok. but i found out in the end he used me for sex. i got pregnant by johnnie 3 times. and each time i was only about a week or two. but johnnie didnt care, he didnt want any kids, he told me to get rid of them. any questions type me back. or e-mail me at snyperskope@hotmail.com my guy kyle made the e-mail name. so it's ok if you want to e-mail me.
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