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"Yes, you can" Posted by rinnie68 19 February at 23:08
Hi! I miscarried in August 07. Waited 6 weeks for my next period before we started trying again. So started trying again in October and v. fortunately fell pregnant straight away. I'm now 20 weeks pregnant. Good luck and stay positive. Rin
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"Hiiiii " Posted by nettynoo 20 February at 10:05
hi there i misscarriaed last April and i am now 8 weeks pregnant WE started immediately but to be honest my periods didnt really go back to normal (and what i mean by normal is my regular 28 days)till 6 months after the misscarriage . it was 2 months after that i fell pregnant again .Ive been ok with this pregnancy no spotting YET but i have my scan on the 12 week and im abit nervous as last scan they couldnt detect a heartbeat ...Good luck and like other posts say stay positive ...xxxx baby dust to you xxxxx
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"Hi" Posted by lizzieworrier 19 February at 18:11
I had missed miscarriage (no heartbeat at scan) last April, i am 11wk now and have 12wk scan on Mon - i'm really scared and i am convinced it's gonna happen again.
Am trying to stay positive and you should too - all will be fine, keep trying!!
Liz (Hoping i am still 11wk)xx
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"I did" Posted by nikkib26 19 February at 17:45
I had one miscarriage, and one ectopic pregnancy during 2007 and had to have a fallopian tube removed, and then last year, my husband was sent to fight in afghanistan with the army for 7 months. Convinced that I would have to wait forever to try again, we tried when he had two weeks leave half way through his time in afghanistan. And by some miracle I fell pregnant, No Ovulation kits, No temp checking just the right time I guess. It was crazy because 2 weeks before he was due home I even had and Extra period in the middle of my cycle.My midwife reckons without this I'd probably have missed being fertile when he was home. Thankfully he came home safe and sound in November, and now we're 28 weeks gone with a very happy healthy bump so far.
I really believe that things just happen when it is right for you. Keep trying and I know it'll happen when it's time. I'd hope that getting pregnant against all our odds will give anyone trying a bit of hope. Nikki x x x
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"I did..." Posted by legz 19 February at 17:40
I miscarried for the first time in March last year. We then left it a few months and I found out I was pregnant in September last year, miscarried again in October. Thought we'd have a break, went on hols, didn't actively try to conceive (didn't know you could so soon afterwards) and when we came home I found out I was pregnant again, feared the worst and everything's fine. I'm now just over 19 wks and feeling great!
Hope this helps.
Have faith....xxxxx
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"I had" Posted by dixie87 19 February at 15:12
a missed miscarriage in Oct 07 which ended up with a D&C. Me and hubby continued ttc as was our way of staying positive. I am now over 7 weeks pregnant and my early scan last week went well.
Both times I got pregnant we where very lucky, have never used temps or ov sticks etc. We just BD every other night from day 8 to 16. (Although sometimes we couldn't be bothered hee hee). Fingers crossed everything goes well.
L x
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"Hey..." Posted by staceymy 19 February at 10:44
i found out i was pregnant on the 1st may 2005... but i m/c on the 3rd may. we started trying straight away and i found out i was pregnant on the 2nd may 2007. so it took us 2years. we were under alot of stress and my job was very stressful. but i moved jobs and caught on not long after.
i know alot of women who have caught straight away from a m/c. please dont stress over it cos as soon as we practicaly gave up and forgot bout trying it happened. plus they say when you have a m/c its a way of your body preparing fr a pregnancy.
good luck Stacey & 7wk Olivia x x x
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"Take things as they come" Posted by fraz6 18 February at 21:54
i had a miscarriage in nov 06 we thought we would try again straight away but didnt fall straight away i think that the stress of trying doesnt help so all i can say is try not to think bout trying and it will happern thats what i found iam now due 2morrow and carnt believe it
Fraz xxx
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"Hi" Posted by byrne4 18 February at 21:44
I had m/c 8 years ago at 10 and a half weeks. I am now expecting baby no 5. I have 4 gorgeous boys so yeah it is poss to have healthy pregnancies but at the time when you have m/c you do wonder if it wil ever happen for you.
Good luck and take care
Sarah 17+5
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"Hey" Posted by lisamerchant86 18 February at 21:37
Sorry to hear about the mc. Yip i had a mc at the beginning aug 07 and had caught again by the end of aug 07. When we decided to try again, we had already caught (but didnt know it), so i think not having the pressure on us helped. As someone else said (sorry cant remeber their name) they didnt think of it as trying, i think thats the best way of thinking about it. Good luck hun Lis 27+1
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"Hey hun" Posted by nicki313 18 February at 21:12
I had a m/c in sept and fell pregnant again in the October there was about 8 weeks difference came as a heck of a shock as took us a year and a half to conceive with my 2nd and 3rd im coming up to 20 weeks now been petrified all the way through but it couldnt have gone better really, there is hope take care xx
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"Hi " Posted by lulu4786 18 February at 21:08
I had a miscarriage last April and I fell pregnant again in December (so 8 months-ish).
The way I look at it is your body knows when the time is right for you to fall again and this is when you will.
When we m/c the only thing I wanted was to be pregnant again, but the more you come to terms with what happened the easier it is.
We never really looked at it as trying for a baby, we just carried on as we normally would until my period was late and we did a test.
Good luck hun, hope you get lucky soon
Lu xxxx
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"Hey" Posted by katie2601 18 February at 21:02
Sorry to hear about your mc hun, its a horrible thing to go through. hope your doing ok. I had a mc in june and fell pregnant at the end of september. How long ago did you have your mc? It can take a while for your hormones to settle back down , cant really give you many tips really, just plenty of baby dancing!!! : )
I didnt bother with temps and charts and all that. just went with the flow really.
Good luck
kate 24+6 pink bump xx
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"Yeah i did" Posted by tweetypie83 18 February at 21:00
It took us nearly a year to fall pregnant again. I have to say unless your completely over your miscarrage dont think you'll fall again til your at ease with yourself.
Saying 'over' your moscarerage sounds wrong maybe come to terms with should be used. We decided tocarrying on trying near enough straight away but Is till felt guilty.
I am over the moon to only be 9wks+6days away from due date but I have had days when I look at my ever expanding bump and feel guilty because of the baby we lost.
It will happen just can take some time for some of us. I have all fingers and toes crossed for you sweetie.
Take care
Zoe and 30wks + 1 day active pink bump
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"Hiya" Posted by miric25 18 February at 21:38
hiya, I had a m/c over the christmas period & got a BFN on 3rd Jan, got some spotting on 20th jan (thought it was start of period) but it never got heavier, then almost 2 weeks after spotting I got my BFP I have my dating scan on 4th March so not sure how soon after m/c we concieved. Obviously its down to the individual of how long u wait before trying again (doctors advice clashes, some say 3 periods, some say 1 period, some say anytime your ready)
All the best Hellen x
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