im feeling a bit low atm, im more annoyed then anything but dead calm? thinkits cause i expected it really just a bit frustrating beccausei cant say anything, kierons mum blames the holocaust on me probably, or wishes me in it.
poor lad, last night he said to me, rather sheepishly " what are you dong about work atm" ... i just repled " sweet f/a" as you do? lol well i cant get employed by anyone now and before people were looking at my tummy funny so you know? and the reason he asked me i found out is because his mum and kylie (yeh my best mate, not) were talking about ho they know people who've gone practically til full term and are still working, i just gritted my teeth and was like they were probably with the same employed through out, and the subject was closed. but that was obviously just a dig at me; she knows full well i cuoldnt get employed anywhere she even told me when she found out works the last thing that should be on my mind, and im just frustrated at the whole thing.
he also said to me today that he takes the blame for everything i do wrong, i really dont knwo what i do to annoy the woman, aside from carrying her sons spawn, i wish she;d jsut ... about that really because then i wouldnt feel so stupid, she'd be well within her rights; the most i do is ring there house phone when i cant get hold of him, i know other girlfriends (kylie) do it and they do it regularly, i go round a few times a week and she never says anything to me, i dont ask for anything i dont say anything she might find offensive, im polite and respectful. i want to tell him to tell her to take it out on me, but it would cause an argument between them, why do i seem to be the only one who gives a crap about how everyone else feels? oo moan with me please xx

you feel like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place, but keep your chin up hun xx

Hi Amie

I don't understand why you cannot work either?? Yes its extremely unlikely you would find a permanent position during pregnancy, pretty much impossible in fact, but you could do short term temping assignments? Right now we have a pregnant girl temping in this office, she is 32 weeks pregnanct, got made redundant from her last job so is doing temporary assignments until she is going to take time off on maternity (she will like most women be working til 36 weeks). SO far she has spent a couple of weeks here and previously had some week long assignments - the work is neither physcially or mentally demanding.

I can see that you have issues with Keirons mum, but to be honest people who use pregnancy as an excuse not to work really wind me up as well - why should I work until I pop while other people decide oh well no one will employ me I'm pregnant - when in fact there is hundreds of temping jobs out there.

With regards to other issues you have with her then I suggest you sit down with Keiron and the two of you have a talk with his mum about whatever issues she has with you and see if you can't resolve them. I am sure you will find its easy to work through if dealt with in the correct manor. If she is still being unreasonable then leave her to it - don't get involved with her and then she can't upset you.

im not even going to bother explaining myself to you.