I'm 20 years old and seven months pregnant. The father of the baby (my supervisor from work) cheated on me with two women from work ( none of us knew)and now is dateing and moveing in with his supervisor, the shift manager. He's lied to eveyone at work, saying I was a one night stand, eventhough we dated for almost a month. He shows no intrest in my baby unless someone else is around. When I called him to let him know it was a girl he said nothing more than "I knew it was". I hate him so much its hard to look at him yet I can't quit because I need the hours for mat leave. I can deal with work, but how am I gonna raise a child with a man like this? I can't let my baby girl spend two days a week with a couple like this. What would they teach my girl? I want nothing more than to pack up and leave town, never letting him know where we are. I don't have anyone here to talk to, I already feel like an awful mom for putting my little girl in a situation like this! +

Hello,

sorry to hear for that.. I never been in this situation.. I guess he doesnt deserve you and that you must go on with your life...

Sorry to hear all that. it is not easy for you, you you must believe that it will be better. You hava a great gift in your body (your baby) and when she will be born you will see what is it priority in life. Men come and men go but the children show us the real values. I know theer is a great men too, but your ex boyfriend it is not surely one of them.When you meet a bettr guy who will love you, he will also love your daughter and become her father...As you saying your ex bf doesnt show interest in your bab and it you that has her in the stomack and it will be you who will take care of her so do what you think is best for both of you.
Good luck. WISH YOU ALL THE BEST

but im unsure if i am deffo pregnant waiting to see a doctor, my bf dosnt want me to keep the baby if i am, we have argued for the 4 weeks that i have been worried, im wondering how long hes gonna stick around if i am , cos i wont get rid of him/her, you should think whats best for you and your baby girl, if hes showing no interest in the wonderful girl in your tummy, then he will miss out on somethign really sepcial, im also 20 in a pickle wether to leave my bf or stay with him and hope he will come round, which i knwo he wont, hang in there im always here if you feel liek chatting plus if you got msn you can add me agrogirl_uk@hotmail.com