ive just found out i am after doin 2 test
went to tell the 1 person who i thought would understand and she tells me to get rid
why is it that wen your young ppl asume u cant do anythin by yourself i have no idea wat to do wat dission to make but wen u need some1 to confide in its funny how the ppl u thought would be there for u arnt

im sorry i just needed to vent i guess for now this is the only place where ppl can understand me thx

sorry again
katx

I've made it. Everyone told to not to have him, my little Jakob Kyle. It is hard, the hardest thing you'll ever do. I live on my own with little help, my little boy is 4months old. I love him so much. You can do anything if u put ur mind to it. Im 16 x

Im 17 n know exactly what you mean. At the beginning nobody was very pleased when i told them, and worst of all it was my boyfriend who wanted me to have an abortion!!! I was gutted. Now due tomorrow n my whole family are just so excited and most of all my boyfriend cant wait to be a daddy, so i think you just need to let it sink in a little bit n it will all work out in the end!!!

Good luck

Chelsea n baby boy bump xxx 39+6 xxx

you dont have to be sorry hun, i found out i was pregnant in jan and my family apart from 2 pple (mum and nan) were so happy and when i has my 12 week scan they see the baby and have totally changed...now i cant go out with either of them without them getting some kind of baby outfit lol. at the end of the day if you are happy and this is what you want you do it, no1 can make you get rid... sorry its not much but when the baby come she will prob change totally!! sorry its not much help. im here if you want to talk!! tc evette 16+5 xx

It also works the other way round too, when I told my family that I was expecting, I am 36 (yes only 36, its not that old) my step-mother, who doesnt alwasy have much tact, came out with something to do with neither of her last 2 kids were planned either. Well this was!!!

Wishing you all the very best of luck and happiness

Rach
30+1W

i had my daughter at 16 and my mum told me to have a abortion, my family all turned against me and wouldnt talk to me, apart from saying im making a mistake and to get rid. My BF and his family stuck by me and i now have a beautiful 15month daughter and i would never change her for the world. My mum came round in the end and now Ella is he best thing in her life, she dotes on her. You make the decision that is best for you, dont let anyone make you do something you dont want to do. I am here to talk if you need me. Good luck.
Aimee xx

i just talked to my bf and he told me hes not mad or anythin but he told me its nt the ryt time im 19 and so is he weve been together since 2004 its complicated cos he lives in a diff country i was plannin to move there in august although hes christian its a muslim country so rules and beliefs on this is forbidden unless ur married he told me atleast we know wenever we wanna a kid wen its thge ryt time we can have 1 but i dont know if i can live with myself if i let this 1 go

i dunno wat to do

just do what you feel is best...nobody can tell you what to do they can only advise and im sure you have got family behind you it wont be easy but think about it and dont rush into anything! you have to do whats best for you and baby!! im here if you want to talk. evette xxx 16+5 bump xxx

Dont worry you do what you think is right! I planned my 1st son when I was 16 and hes now 2 half and ive planned this one which is due in May and im just coming on 20! I must admit though I have a very supportive family and so are my partners family but he is 25 so older enough to know he was ready for a baby