WELL IM ONLY 16 AND I JUST TURNED 16 LIKE A MONTH AND A HALF AGO...MY BOYFRIEND, ON THE OTHER HAND, IS 19 GOIN ON 20 IN A COUPLE OF MONTTHS...I THINK IM PREGNANT AND IM SOOOO SCARED!!! MY MOM IS NOT THE KIND OF PERSON TO TALK TO ESPECIALLY ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT!! AND SHE TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY THAT IF HE EVER DOES ANYTHING TO ME OR GETS ME PREGNANT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT THAT SHE WILL DO EVRYTHING IN HER POWER TO GET HIM LOCKED UP...I DONT BELIEVE IN ABORTIONS AND I KINDA DO WANNA HAVE THIS BABY IF IM REALLYY EXPECTING...BUT I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HER AND I REALLY DONT WANT HER TO OVERREACT AND TRY TO PUT MY BOYFRIEND IN JAIL...IM SO SCARED..IDK WAT TO DO...PLEASE SOMEBODY GIMME SOME ADVICE...PLEASE!!!

hi there mimi
i do agree with everyone els u do need to do that test you need to also think of what is involved if you are pregers and also are you and your boyfriend strong enough for something this big at a young age i mean im 21 22 in august and its hard enough on me and my now husband just how much this is going to take over our lifes, as for your mum " doing all she can to get him locked up" she cant ur 16 and the police wount even look at it as 16 and legal age its intialy ur choise i told my mum i was late shes the one that got me the test and she said the same stuff ur mum has said she now can not wait till the baby is here in july and do all she could to help me and my husband( who lives in and is from morcocco)to help us get married and do the right thing, im not saying get married but you sertanly need to sit down and think about this fully and talk to your mum and your boyfriend truely from your heart just make sure you feel ur self ur doing the right thing. if u need any one to talk to with being young then dont be afriad to drop me a line or email -- bluerainbowdrop19@hotmail.co.u k
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kat 23+5 wriggly bump

hi,
how late are you? you need to get a test done, go to your local heath clinic they do it for free. if you are, you need to sit down with your boyfriend and ask him on his views on being a father and if hes willing to help and support you espcially with your mum, she needs to know, take your time and you need to get it straight in your head first what your going to say but dont put it off!! either sit down with her alone or with your boyfriend, she needs to know how you feel and that you are serious about this baby and your boyfriend, the more mature you are about this the more she'll see your serious, tell her you know and understand this is a big thing and it will effect the rest of your life and she'll be understanding, she be upset and angry but thats only because she wants the best for you and your future. she will always see you as her little girl, we dont want our little girls to grow up to quick!! let her havbe her say too try not to raise you voice as she will to there will be tears from both of you but this will soon turn to joy.

good luck

nai
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First thing you have to do is a test. Depending on how late you are is also another thing, if your only just late get a early response one or one that astates you can test early, if your quiet late you can do a cheaper one. Tesco sell them for two and half-three quid, thats the one I used.

HAve you spoke to your boyfriend? See what he says and together you can tell your mum. Technically, if you are just pregnant then there is nothing your mum can do regards to having him put in jail-he hasn't done anything wrong! You are legal so it is not wrong. As long as he doesnt say he aint interested and tries to make you choose between him and the baby then he wont mind telling your mum with you and telling her he will support you both and the baby.

Take care and let us know how you get on.

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Zoe and 36wks +2day pink bump

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I suppose first things first you should do a test to see whether you really are pregnant, if you are then you can start to think about how to tell people, if the test is negative you are worrying over nothing.

Either way, I'm sure things will turn out okay

Take Care

Rachael