i have been away abroad for a month so all drs have done is confimed how far i am and when i returned they have booked me in with a midwife but thats not until 7th may so il be 16 weeks by then waitin for ma scan and blood tests is there anythin myself that i should or shouldnt be doin

dont rele know much not many ppl know so hard to talk and get info plus i feel i dont wanna bother the drs soooo seen as ur all expecting i would love if u could help me out thanks

love kat
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could some1 plz tell me wats the earliest they can tell the sex of the baby thx u

im 19 and 22+5 with my first and i was like you to start with didnt know what i couldnt eat and do but i was told by mw to do things i used to do i will know what i have done enough but just be careful...my cousin when she was expectins was careful and always went withsomeone but kept riding her horse untill she new she couldnt no more!!
so do what you feel is best and if you feel you shouldnt do it ...dont!!
where abouts are you from? the hospitals usually tell you at your 20 week scan the sex if they can as some hospitals dont!!
Take Care
Evette 22+5 Pink Bump xxx

im just eatin better healthier and 3 times a day now (b4 id probably eat half wat every1 else easts a day or less ) dont smoke dont drink only work and there like dont lift things or do this or that lol
now im home and bk at work there is some1 who is between 24 and 27 weeks preg i think,
she was a big help b4 i went away just waitin to see her again and il get as much info b4 she leaves lol

im just excited and want the weeks to pass quick and hope everthing is all ok with bean
i think drs now adays are so use to women being preg that wen it comes to first timers they just treat em like we know wat were doin lol id rather them tell me every detail no matter how stupid or not worth sayin it is lol

kat
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know it's a long time to wait til you see the midwife but mine was really thorough about what I should be doing and eating so hopefully yours will help put your mind at rest when you see her. Most of it's common sense really and you sound like you're looking after yourself so that's the main thing, just remember not to eat any dairy products that aren't pasteurised and make sure all meat is properly cooked, no rare steaks or anything. The midwife should give you a pregnancy book as well and I've found that really useful if there's anything I'm not sure about. Let us know how you get on with your appointments and stuff, got my scan on tuesday and it's felt like forever waiting for it to come round so know how you feel! Take care hun,

love,
Clare 12+2 weeks xxx

have you had a scan already?

usually you get bloods taken at 16 weeks for spina and downs, then a 20 week scan,you can usually tell the sex at a 20 week scan, but some places its policy not to say.

whens your due date? as im also 14 weeks pregnant.

nope havnt had a scan yet its gonna be ma first wen im 16 weeks i havnt had any1 work out my due date but im guessin around end of october
so i guess after this scan theyw ill put me in for another for later