Hey everyone,

Just a qick question.. im nearly 22 weeks pregnant and from around 10 weeks i went off sex completly!!
Have no mojo what so ever!!
Was feeling guilty that OH has been lonely so thought i would see if after some foreplay Sorry TMI!! I would be in the mood, but found that sex realllyyy hurt!!!
Was so uncomfortable, has anyone else experienced this during pregnany? Am worried as its hurtin me during sex im gona be in agony during labour!!!!!
Any advice or tips to sort my problem out would be much appreciated!!

Thanks

Lucy 21wks+4

I didnt go off sex but did find that i was too tired to be at it every night, especially towards the end! I found sex hurt though but used lube which really helped. If anything sex felt best during pregnancy!

Lots of people go off sex during pregnancy though, im sure your oh understands, maybe you could find other ways of 'ahem' relieving him? lol

Kerry and Ava

I went off sex for ages and ages! (poor OH) Like you, i found sex quite uncomfotable,just experiment with different positions as i found some too deep, which caused the pain. Also taking it slowly and try using some lubricant to smooth things along! lol!

Hope this helps! have fun!

kate 36+1 xxx

i'm 20 weeks and so far haven't gone off sex but do find it extremely different to pre pregnancy.
although it can be a little uncomfortable i think part of the problem is that i tense up because i'm so concious it's doin somethin to baby(even though i know it's not), so maybe it's the same for you and you just don't feel like you can just go with the flow if that makes sense. i know that's not really givin you any advice as such but it could be a reason for why it's uncomforatble, plus if you don't do it on a regular basis i suppose things down below close up slightly!!!
like you i'm thinkin that if don't have regular sex (which we don't really) then it'll be agony when in labour, lets both hope there's no truth in it!!
take care
love laura 20wks