Hi ladies hope your well,

I need some advice, I had Emily nearly 8 weeks ago, and hubby and resumed bedroom activity for the first time last night (blushes)

It was quite sore about half way in, so i had a little feel up there, and my cervix felt quite low and long and a bit ragged is the best word to describe.

I have not yet had a period and was wondering, A) if anyone else has felt this or experienced it, B)when does it go back to being high and firm and smooth?

Or am i just wierd for putting my fingers up there and having a feel?

Thanks for reading and sorry for the content but have to know

Karen&Emily (7weeks and 3 days old)

probably not much help, myself and OH resumed our sex life just 3 weeks after Eleanor was born, I did not tear or have any stitches in labour, I can't remember your circumstances? Perhaps it makes a difference if you did, so it may be worth checking with MW/HV/Doc.
I thought i'd had a little period when she was a bout 4 weeks old, but I was not sure, I am definatly on my period now, so lets hope things are returning to normal, especially as my cycle was not normal prior to having Eleanor.
Hope other wise you & Emily are well?

Rachael & Eleanor (7 weeks, 5 days old)
xxxx