Dear all,

I got married some 18 months back, but the real problem is that i haven`t had my intercourse yet. this is purely because of me that we are not having any intercourse, the reasons are,

1. I am much afraid about sex, My friends said that it will be painful in the initial stages so i don`t allow my pal for anything. when he tries to penetrate i will keep my body tight, bcoz of this we can`t go much beyond our foreplay.

2. My mensus is irregular. last time my period extended upto 1 month. i was very much irritated and annoyed. the bleeding is too much.

Please give me some suggestions. how should i react during my intercourse.

Just reading your thread ...your period lasted a month...is that right? I think you should pop along to your GP and speak to him/her about that. Do you live in the UK? Might be that your GP can give you something to regularise your periods.

Secondly sex shouldnt be sore...have a nice bath to relax yourself and then try.

Good luck! Sharon 24wk pink bump