he wants, in the waiting room- his mum, her bf, and his best mate... and i told him i will take his mum if it means that much to him but no one else, im not having it, five minutes after ive given birth- and he reckons im being out of order... he really hasnt considered me at all, gosh i am so angry i wont back down on this... seriously i like them and stuff but i dont want an audience five minutes after ive given birth? am i out of order? i really dont think i am, his mum i can understand but the rest is just taking the mick if im honest; and hes acting like im being completely inconsiderate but i think hes being really selfish even assuming that was the case?

hes acting like my mum being there is like a slur his family not being there? seriously, i am so angry, someone calm me down lol!
and if you tell me im out of order, i'll put you on my list too!



lol- other then that hope everyones ok!! and most people have had their babies, i do read things i just dont sign in (my pc is so slow) meh! take care everyone xx

I dont think you are being out of order at all...i have spoke to oh and said that the only person in the room when im in labour is him and that his mum, dad and my mum can wait in the waiting room and if the ward sister will let them...but thats it...his nan and grandad want to come and wait but i said im not having loads of people there after giving birth. But i dont mind the babys nan and grandads!! How long have you got left now hun?
Evette and 25+2 Pink Bump xx

well i feel better now! lol, hes saying now he will wait in the waiting room and is being really childish about it now, but ive put my foot down and said just him or non at all, and i think hes trying to sway me- but it wont be me who regrets it will it, he'll come round hes just being immature atm! lol thanks guys

im 36 weeks! hope hes early!! im a witch arent i mwahahahaa... how is everyone?

I dont think you are out of order whatsoever. Why on earth would you want a load of people around you just after you have given birth. I have had 4 kids and its only been me and hubby after the birth and even with this one the only person I want with me after, is my hubby. Yeah maybe you wont mind a few hours after or the next day but not after 5 mins. Bloody men. How long have you got left to go?

Take care

Sarah 29+5 blue bump

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no you are not out of order, he is being really selfish, does he think that youll want all those visitors after god knows how many hours of labour! maen can be sooo thoughtless at times. why does his best mate want to be there? newborn babies arent usually a bloke thing (sorry im assuming the friend is a he?)

just say no!!!!!

take care hun

emma

it is difficult for you to say no, the nurses will turn people away if you ask, it is unlikely the hospital will want you having all those visiors all at once anyway, it wasn't so long ago his family wern't interested, it's funny how people change when the birth gets closer isn ...

good luck
xxx

u r not out of order - I certainly wouldnt have wanted all those people there after Id given birth !! I just about tolerated my boyfriend lol ..

If I were u Id stick to ya guns and tell him to consider ur feelings, this is a special and private time, u dont want to be worrying about everyone else

Jo and Harry - 12 days old xxx

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thank you i will be doing, i think he sbeing very selfish.. thanks take care xx