well my mum walked thru the door at 9.15pm an hour and half late as she missed the 6pm flight from dublin but shes sound now, well wen she walked through the door i had my suitcase at the stairs and asked if i could stay for a while,

i dont know why but she must of sensed something straight away and she just came up to me n hugged me till i couldnt breathe i was like alright mum get off, lol


well hes been textin n tryin to call me as he would of got bk from work a while ago n i'm not there, i havent replied becoz i dont need ... men like that in my life i now no why gay women turn gay..

i'm deeply upset over it but i wont let him ruin my pregnancy it will be a smooth and easy one,

i dont wanna get stressed or to upset as i'm in early stages,

well as far as kim is concerned she probably isnt the 1st and wont be the last but he will NEVER i mean never be able to try n talk things out with me i dont beleive in cheatin or al the rubbish there are good guys out there and d!ckheads to just some get more bad than others,

if he wants to be apart of my childs life then i will let him after a court battle,

which i'm sure when he has no job after my dad fires him he works for my dad haha

i'll be taking my items outta the house n he will be left with nothing more then the flooring n i might leave him a cushion to, just so he can suffocate himself with it..lol

he wont be able to afford the rent payments on his own it would be to much of a struggle plus his car is in my name so i'll be takin that to i dont think he truely thought bout what he was doin, he never wanted for anything,
or maybe he never thought he'd get caught?

haha csa payments after ive taken everything of him he wont have a pot to ... in.

i will delibertly drive pass our old house in his car whens he gets evicted as its his name on the tenacey dumb ...

hahaha

ohh bloody well i aint dyin so its not the end of the world

mwahhhh to you lovely ladies thank you so much.xxxx

Hello ladies i thought id come on and rant bout my partner today,

i moaned over the pridictor test and wanted to get another one just 2 b sure even thou doc confimed monday i was,

anyways done a nother yes yes everythings fine postives lines, well chuffed

well i had a bad feeling to go in his phone i dont know why just a though popper into my little brain n said "hey donna have a sneaky look just check you never know" lol


anyways i did i know i hold my hand up god damn it and i did i went thru his phone,

well guess what i found a name called

KINKY FLIPPIN KIM!! well minus the flippin,,

behold we have a kinky kim wtf??

i went thru messages and one were sayin he sent to her

your beautiful and your eyes etc etc sh!t


and all this i miss you bubba n crap!

like what the hell we're childhood sweethearts i'm 20 his 22

i was 9 he was 11 yes very young but we was best friends up this i was 14 and he was 16 and we got together, and we was two peas in a pod we passed out theory test together and driving test on the same day we done everything together, and now some kinky kim tellin him shes got a bun in the oven

wtf??????


i'm in turmoil rite now i wanna rip his heart outta his chest n throw it dwn hes neck while i punch him in the face god i'm soooooo ANGRY


hw dare he do this to me??

i haven even confronted him yet


to scared incase i hurt him
ladies what am i to do, jesus i dont need this now, everything was s'pose to be alright, sh!t!!



god smacked i feel drainned omg my mums back in an hour so hopefully she'll give me so good advice, plus the news i havent told her yet that i'm pregnant,


p.s
if you see on news tonight crazed women kills partner....

haha its only me

xxxxxx

tryin to stay postive who needs men i can be a single parent my mum done it for 14 years b4 gettin back with my dad, xx

"Poor you! "

Oh Ashleigh after the excitement of finding out your pregnant to go on to finding out about your partner being an toss pot! You did the right thing to give him a cooling off and going home to your mum. Did you have your suspicions that he was up to something? I know I check DHs mobile all the time (sneaky I know)...its not that I dont trust him...well truth be told I dont!lol...or else I wouldnt be checking his phone!lol It has happened to me in a previous relationship...so I would be a fool to trust again and not do the sneaky checks!lol You have to look after number 1 and put you and that little baby inside of you first. It will be interesting what he has to say to you to explain the txts...dont be getting annoyd..stay calm for your own sake and walk away with your head held high.
Big hugs Sharon 24+2wk pink bump xxx

He's a total rat bag. Does Kinky Kim know about you? Has be been lying to both of you? How could he steal all your baby joy after a couple of days of elation?
Have a good cry to your mum and decide what to do, hopefully she'll help you to batter him, I would if you were my daughter. The other post is right you don't need someone like this, you could be 10 years on with a few kids, pg and he could be behaving like this. You'll be happier being a single mum with a gorgeous wee bundle of joy, than with a man you can't trust and never having peace of mind.

Hope you're OK

Jen 33 + 5 xxx

im due next week and im sat in floods of tears oh has been working all week and ive been on my own with the kids i slept really bad last night and and he comes in and says i wanna go the pub he promised me wed go the cinemas but he wanted go out with his mates and i had to pay for it as hes lent his bro all his money im soooo pissed off and upset plus his ex who he tried get into shall we say when we first found out i was preg works there and he promised he wouldnt go there anymore but hes gone anyway even tho im obv upset and tired he didnt even help get the kids ready for bed hes not seen them this week
i hate men

This is a pig. Lock the doors and go to bed, don't let him in. If he wanted to go out drinking on a Tues night he shoulda stayed single and not got you pregnant all these times. Who does he think he is? You should be sitting with your big swollen feet elevated while he brings your dinner and tends to the children. Make him pay big big time. I hate them too. Even more now reading about these other horrors.

Jen 33 + x

Ashleigh this must hurt, I'm not really sure what to say to make you feel better, but your right, you can do this on your own is that is what you decide, with the support of friends and family you don't need him by your side as much as you probably want him there, you will still make a fantastic Mum.

When you do confront him, try to stay calm for your sake and your baby's sake. Does he know you're pregnant yet?
He is the one that is going to miss out over this Kim, she probably isn't half the women you are, did you say she is pregnant too?

Maybe you can go and have a good cry before speaking to him, make sure you're feeling sure of yourself and know what you want to say, save blurting the wrong sort of stuff out.

Take Care.

Message me anytime if you want a chat!

Rachael & Eleanor (7wks, 6 days old)
xxxxx

theyre all selfish wa*kers. finish him, and seriously mess him up with CSA.

well my mum walked thru the door at 9.15pm an hour and half late as she missed the 6pm flight from dublin but shes sound now, well wen she walked through the door i had my suitcase at the stairs and asked if i could stay for a while,

i dont know why but she must of sensed something straight away and she just came up to me n hugged me till i couldnt breathe i was like alright mum get off, lol


well hes been textin n tryin to call me as he would of got bk from work a while ago n i'm not there, i havent replied becoz i dont need ... men like that in my life i now no why gay women turn gay..

i'm deeply upset over it but i wont let him ruin my pregnancy it will be a smooth and easy one,

i dont wanna get stressed or to upset as i'm in early stages,

well as far as kim is concerned she probably isnt the 1st and wont be the last but he will NEVER i mean never be able to try n talk things out with me i dont beleive in cheatin or al the rubbish there are good guys out there and d!ckheads to just some get more bad than others,

if he wants to be apart of my childs life then i will let him after a court battle,

which i'm sure when he has no job after my dad fires him he works for my dad haha

i'll be taking my items outta the house n he will be left with nothing more then the flooring n i might leave him a cushion to, just so he can suffocate himself with it..lol

he wont be able to afford the rent payments on his own it would be to much of a struggle plus his car is in my name so i'll be takin that to i dont think he truely thought bout what he was doin, he never wanted for anything,
or maybe he never thought he'd get caught?

haha csa payments after ive taken everything of him he wont have a pot to ... in.

i will delibertly drive pass our old house in his car whens he gets evicted as its his name on the tenacey dumb ...

hahaha

ohh bloody well i aint dyin so its not the end of the world

mwahhhh to you lovely ladies thank you so much.xxxx

on getting out, he's silly man, he is definatly going to be worse off without you then, why don't they think before they act?
better to be out now than for this all to blow up once baby arrives or even worse 5 yrs down the line.

take care.

Rachael & Eleanor (8 weeks old today)
XxxX

And I hope Kinky Kim finds out truth as well cos he could of been feeding her a load of bull too. Wonder what he's thinking the now. Fancy keeping texts and names like that in your phone. What a diddy. Hey, hope you're Ok, glad mums back. Take care

Jen xx