i an 17 + 3 and i have a very round belly but i am worried that i am just fat and its not a bump, its really soft and squishy and just fels like fat? i was under the impression that it should be hard! i can still suck it in a bit im just paranoid that i have eaten far tooo much! please help!!!
love steph

im 18 + 1 an funny enough thats whats goin through my mind too every1 has noticed that im gettin bigger just this past week but wen i come to see myself i just feel its fat i can tell that lower down is hard and can feel where the top of it is so now everytime some1 says awww baby is there im like im just fat its rele depressin as i know im gettin bigger but the top half doesnt feel as firm as the bottom half lol

ive kinda come to the conclution that cos i was a very skinny size 8 with a flat stomach that now im eatin usual amounts of food that there is fat on there which is natural for eatin better over a period of time but because cant exercise stomach muscles like usual its just there starin at me everytime i see my bump anywho as bump is gettin bigger i just figured it pushin the fat out more so im being more paranoid about ppl thinkin im fat instead of preg cos i want my bump lol ive waitin 18 weeks for it to just start to be noticed lol

dunno if my rantin will help but atleast ur not alone in this hehe
kat
x

I have been round and huge since around 4 months and it is still a little squishy even though I am in last trimester. At all my examinations the midwives have said well your bump is still nice and soft so gather it is normal!

I think it starts to harden more towards the end but not too sure.

I used to say - I know I am fat but now my fat is taking shape! (I am usually a size 6 which is tiny so looking fat with shape was great!)