my coworker joy told me that when i go for my ultrasound and if they tell me my babys dead, i can get the nurse fired. and then she told me that i better hope it doesnt die, and to be prepared if it happens. her saying this to me is makeing me worry alot. what should i do... any advice on this would help me right now. thank you.

Your hormones are getting you worried , and trust me the slightest little thing will send you wobbling. Sounds to me like she is wierd & jealous...watch her! try to talk about babies again and if she starts with this nonsense then slam the .....verbally..you are pregnant ...blame it on the hormones. Sounds to me like she is either very immature or has had some horible experience..either way avoid her ..you don't need this.
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Hi

i havent heard about getting the nurse fired for telling u that , but last september I went for my 12 week scan thinking everything was good only to find out that my baby had died at 9 weeks. I had a missed miscarriage which is when they baby does not survive but your body does not realise and so u dont bleed and u keep getting your normal pregnancy symptoms, eg morning sickness, tiredness etc.... try not to worry about this though as I'm sure your baby will be fine. I am 7 weeks pregnant at the moment and all I do is worry that the same thing will happen again. But you have to stay positive as worrying and stressing wont help the baby. Hope this answers your question. GL with ur pregnancy xx

from what i know joy was pregnant awhile back i dont know what age. but her baby died inside her. and that was what the nurse told her. my best friend at work told me that she let joy babysit her baby, and when patty went to go get her kid back, joy didnt want to give the kid back to her. patty said joy tryed to run off and hide the kid. i was gonna let joy babysit my kid, but after that i deceided against it. my ultrasound is on next monday the 19th. i'm excited because i want to know what i'm haveing. most of my co-workers are getting me things. they all want to know what it is after i have the ultrasound. oh something else i should mention, i have another friend named patti at work and she had an abortion last year in in 2006 i think, and everytime she gets pregnant she carrys the child for 3-4 months and then misscarries. she has had about 6-7 misscarries since then. me and patty wonder if she can even have kids. i know thats mean to say, but patti gets her hopes up, then loses the baby, and goes into deppression mode. and patti drinks more mountin dew{pop} then anyone i know like 6 cans a day. patti just found out she is pregnant again, i told her if she wants to keep this one to cut back on the pop. and not to lift anything heavy at work. i will let you guys know what happens with me, and with patti. thanks for the advice.

So the poor love has been through hell and another friend too! There will be some negativity around you,You ned to protect yourself from these women. Imagine a mirror and when you talk to them their negativity bounces back to them and not onto you.You and the baby must come first even if you feel sorry for them.
I think your advice is right , get her to cut back and have water for the baby instead.
Take care
H