Okay, Im not convinced that after pushing a whole baby out of your vagina, that it goes back to the way it was. Therefore Im scared about being to loose to enjoy sex after I give birth. How was it for you guys? Does it feel the same, or better, or worse...and what about your partners...did they notice any difference?

Wow, I've been thinking the same thing recently too... I'm so worried that it will not be the same as before... If anyone could help???

My first child is now 20 months old and I am now 6 weeks pregnant with second child. When I had sex after having my baby it felt like I was a virign again, it took me almost three months as I was a bit too sore to touch but everyone is different. But overall the sex I think and so does my husband is better now because you you muscles that you never realised you could use. Good Luck