Oh damn it, im an idiot. I accidentally left this letter id written and i mentioned me being pregnant in it, left it out and my mother found it and read it, as nosey mothers are prone to do! Im staying with them at the moment. She asked me and i said sure i am, I didnt want to say until id had my scan in 2 weeks so im mad i was so stupid now! She said why didnt i say but why should i have? I lost a baby in march when my annoying sister blabbed to anyone whod listen that i was pregnant and i didnt want that to happen again, so noone knew but my husband, and surely thats our right to keep it a secret? Makes me so mad when they treat me like a child, i heard her tell my dad and they started slamming things and mumbling angrily. Im just miffed. I hate when they act like im some kind of naughty teen when im 23 years old and married! If they dare try and talk down to me i will blow my lid, im celebrating 12 weeks tomorrow, ive never gotten this far in 2 other pregnancies, im not going to allow them to bring me down. But feels better to get it off my chest. Sorry for rambling

you are totally right to be a bit p***ed off! i would be. i haven't told my mom yet for the simple reason that i know exactly how she's going to be. Im 19 and i dont agree with people saying you are too young to have a baby etc etc, ur perfectly old enough to everything else so i dont see why it should make any difference. My mom is going to tell me i have disappointed her and iv ruined my life but i know i havent and thats all that matters, im not going to let her say that stuff to me. She still treats me like a child too,even though i moved out in december and have looked after myself ever since! i know now the secret is out, but you have done very well to get this far and congratulations on the 12 wk mark! hopefully i will be feeling better too after my scan at early bleed clinic on friday. fingers crossed!

ashleigh
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I hope so too, maybe its the stress of everything youre going through that caused it and it will all work out fine in the end. It gets on my nerves i left home when i was 19 as well because my mum basically said it was a choice between my house or my OH and i said screw it then and left. I think thats partly the reason, she doesnt like that im with him, not him personally, shes uber religious and it ticks me off. Luckily today my dad was just totally fine about it and acted normally, whereas my mums trying to be but shes obviously got something to say. Im not interested, she can be as moody as she likes me and my OH cant wait to have this baby, and yay 12 weeks! Look forward to seeing your 12 week celebration post in the future too