Hi girls,
as you can see, Arran3 has been on here this morning saying that we are playground bullies ?????? It seems that she is the type of person who enjoys trying to annoy people.

This is a public forum and everyone is welcome, but Im sure that I speak on behalf of the rest of you when I say that people trying to abuse the forum by posting extreme views in the hope of upsetting people is not on .... I was quite angry by her post on the TTC forum - "through all the heartache, there is nothing more wonderful than being called mamma" now, I dint know about you but I find that rather insensitive. I think that her intentions are not good, her blog was removed by the moderator because it angered so many people and I dont want people not coming on here because of her.

Its a shame really, since Ive been coming on here there hasnt been a cross word until now - of course people are entitled to their opinion and disagree with each other from time to time, but it seems that the material she posts is rather one sided and quite insulting - the point Im trying to make is that lets not watse any more time getting angry with her, and if she posts anything that rubs you up the wrong way to just ignore her ... I think that she enjoys people retaliating.

Rememnber, we shouldnt have to justify our decisions, and from now on lets agree to ignore anything that isnt constructive, too much time and energy is being wasted

Love to all mums, beans, bumps and babbas

xxxx

What a mad couple of days girls what with the bf thing, the one over on the name board and my photos of Harry. Why cant people just sod off and leave us do what we do best and thats chat and ask advice about pregnancy and babies and just enjoy each others 'company'.

Hopefully be back to normal asap!!!!

Take care all

Sarah and 24 day old baby Harry

By the way I have 5 boys (not BF any of them either) and I DO NOT consider myself an expert in anything to do with children. What I do know though is that it comes naturally to me but I dont go preaching to other people how to bring up their children.

I had one last thing to say to the silly ***** now I will say no more!!

Rach xx + 20wk+3 very lively bump!

know the saying there always one! best to ignore it an it will sooon get board and you would think as she is a SPECIALIST she would no better an how hard it can be bf anyway forget her!

tc shell mum of 4 so does that entitle me to be a specialist lol

xxx

I have spent several years training have you ?

If you have had training you have a lot of knowledge gaps!! Maybe you should try some 'training' on communication skills and how not to be a complete *****!

I would just like to point out that i have spent nearly 4 and a half years at university, training to be a nurse and midwife. I am pregnant for the 2nd time and i class myself to be NO expert in the field of breast feeding, we are taugh the pros and cons of doing this (one con being, it is a proven fact that dad does not get the same bonding experience if a mother does decide to breast feed) but we are also taught to respect the choice of the mother and to not push our views onto other people, each and every mother has the rights to care for their child as they wish and no one deserves to be made to feel a bad mother because of someone elses views. University's offer courses in communication maybe you missed those lectures, but i'd advise you look into them?
Now i say all the wonderful supportive mothers and mother to be on this forum ignore any negative comments in the future and we carry on doing what we have always done, support each other.
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got 10 years experience thanx!

did they teach you manners and to respect other people ????

well said! Shes got a flamin cheek! That post on ttc annoyed me too!


Emily and lily (15 weeks) xxx

Mrs Moo xxx

Well said Fairy Cakes!

As I said yesterday, lets all just go back to how we were. We're here for each other to give advice and help, enjoy each others company, share thoughts and opinions and more importantly, enjoy and look forward to our beautiful babies.

I'm sure from time to time, we'll have different opinions on certain subjects. But that's life. We're all grown up enough to see that hurting other people gets you nowhere. At least we do all agree on one thing, there's no place on this forum for people like her!

So lets step over and move on.

Take care, much love

Misschiefy xx

agree with you

elizabeth xxx
13+6wks

I agree completely.

Lets not let her get to us anymore!

Take care everyone.

Ellie and Kieran
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