.... i have my scan this friday but i am very nervous. i have had two missed mc's so i really scared. i keep freaking myself out i tried to feel my uterus and i cant feel it when i read you should at 12 weeks and i swear my belly has deflated.also throughout this pregancy my breasts have never been soar they have just grown. as you can see i have gotten myself in a state ! i really am working myself up as i want this so much!

sorry about the rant

and try to relax, easier said than done, i know myself, i couldnt sleep well the night before my scan so worried something would have gone wrong. Your belly goes up and down all the time, mines poking right out now but might be gas or water retention as yesterday wasnt this big! I wouldnt worry about that its always changing. As for the boobs, if theye growing its a good sign. Mine werent sore for the first weeks, its only recently at like 13 weeks they got really heavy and achy. I know its natural to stress, im with you there but im sure you will be fine. Good luck and enjoy it.

no point getting yourself worked up as you ll make yourself worse. sorry to hear of your m/c! just a message to let you know i m here for a chat if you want and that i hope everything goes well and is well on friday!

take care
haylez and 8 month old finlay x