Hi, I am 5 weeks pregnant and cant stop crying. I hate feeling like this and just want to know if it gets any better.
I feel so confused....I am so happy I am expecting a baby but then sometimes I get really upset and feel like my life is over cos I cant go out and have fun anymore. I feel bad when I think this cos really I am happy and I dont know where these thoughts are coming from.
I just feel really alone cos all my friends are out clubbing or whatever and I am on my own. I know that sounds pathetic but I just feel like I am having a hard time adjusting.
Also I am being really unreasonable and horrible to my boyfriend, thinking thats he's not supporting me or understanding me when really he's doing his best.
I just feel like I want to speak to some women who are going through the same thing as me cos none of my friends have children or are pregnant so I dont know where to turn.
If anyone could just reply and let me know if they've ever felt like this and I'm not going mad I would feel really grateful
Thanks xxxxxxxxx

i was really un-reasonable and a complete psycho ... whilst i was pregnant, how my husband survived i will never know lol!!! the crying will get better, then when you have the baby it will get worse again for a bit, im not telling you this to ... you off, just to warn you as i didnt realise how bad baby blues could be but i wanted to send ben back and thought my life was over and was a pathetic mess but it only lasted an hour or so each day for about 3 days after i had given birth. you will go thru many up's & downs but the pleasure a baby brings you is imense, the first time they smile at you will melt your heart and there are always granny's to look after the lo when you need a bit of peace or need a night out with the girlies, having a baby doesn't need to ruin your life

please feel free to PM me if you want

and your older than me lol iam 19 lol

take care

it gets better. or if crying helps relieve stress and anxiety, cry your heart out girl!!!

As said before it doesn't mean you life's over, you can still go clubbing, just don't drink and enjoy watching your friends make a fool of themselves

Take care
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everyone gose throw this its just because your hormones are getting used to the changes it gets better i promis

and i know you say that you feel like your missing out on going clubbin but the clubs arnt going anywhere lol they will still be there after baby id born lol, and i have been out clubbin a few time wilst been pregant (for peoples birthdays about 10 times) i just didnt drink , infact i quite enjoyd not drinking lol sitting back and watching all your friends and you can remebr exsacly what went on and they carnt its ace lol, and whats 9 month out of your life for the sake of your new love ?

i am now 39wks and fed up with waiting but i have had a really good pregancy and not too many acks and pains lol,

take care
love kelly 39wks pink bump
xx



ps just wonderd how old r u ?

I'm 24. Know what you're sayin about going out and not drinking, its true - and at least I wont have a hangover the next day
And your right - its only 9 months (well, 8 now!) LOL!
I've managed to stop crying in the last hour as well so things must be looking up!
I just feel so wierd, like I'm not in control of my emotions - I suppose that will pass...
Really glad you took the time out to reply, just needed someone to speak some sense to me!
Feel much better now, ta! xxxxx

But I am no longer as grumpy! I was so grumpy in the first trimester, Im 25 and I thought my life was over (my job is for time being) but after taking it all at 1 week at a time I got my head around it. Just explain to your BF that your hormal, in emotional turmoil and your whole life is changing so please be patient, cook you dinner and let you sleep because you will be exhausted at the start and that makes you grumpy.

With regards alcohol I was really upset too, every one kept drinking Champagne to celebrate except me but by 8 weeks I didn't want any and I still don't. I quit smoking and alcohol without a craving. Whatever you do do not look at live births on you tube!

Good luck and look after yourself.

Gg 16wks

"Live births "

i did it you really dont want to look lol , it disgusting and dost look normal lol ,

but only one way out now lol

TC love kelly and 39 weeks pink bump