ok im pregnant in the 8th grade but im almost 16 and my baby is due in december but at my school they do these abstinence programs every year and it makes me mad that they are telling us to not even have sex till we are mariied. and then im sitting here throwing a fit about how its our decisions to make and OUR consecuences GOOD OR BAD.!!!!!!! so give me advice.

I must be completely honest and tell you that I really don't know what to say to your post.. except for that a baby does hold huge responsibility and need stability and support amongst other things and perhaps thats what they are trying to get across to people just perhaps in not the ideal way...

I dont mean this post to sound rude or horrible at all as it isnt meant to at all, we are all here to help