thanks for giving me some advice, i may just be worrying but will find out this week. i know its not the end of the world just wander what my friends and family will think especially when i am best mates with the father but suppose its better than not being in contact with him at all. thanx x

i was together with my old boyfriend for 3 years, but realised one of my closest friends and i were attracted to eachother, so i left my relationship for my friend. we were together about 3 months and everything was ok but i began to feel a bit trapped and recently decided that it would be better to stay just friends, so i can have a bit of freedom. i am almost certain i am pregnant and will be doing a test this week.what can i do when im single without a boyfriend,what would people think at such a young age too.the thought of abortion hasnt been thought about too much as it pains me to think of doing that to an unborn person.i may have to as i dont know what other options i have, i really dont want to but the fact of being at college, young 18 and single is not a good thing. i would really be thankful if i could have some advice. thankyou jes x

hiya i'm in kinda the same situation, i'm 11 weeks pregnant 18 and single, i decided that i couldnt hav an abortion and i'm happy with decision, jst workin out how to tell my family now! there is lots of support out there if you are pregnant, especially off the midwives. I was panicking cz i am meant to be goin to uni in spetember, but i can still go, jst prosponing it for a year, so dont worry about college. at least you are still in contact with possible father, the father of my child doesnt want to no. let me know how u get on.... x x

Wait until you have taken a pregnancy test, you might be worrying over nothing. However if you are pregnant, there could be worse things. When people have to manage they do. My sister was a single Mum at 16 and although she had to make sacrifices she wouldnt go back and change her son for the world. It wouldnt be the end of the world, you could either keep college going on a part time basis or go back in a few years. Try not to panic until you have done your test (I know thats easy for me to say) Good luck and take care x

thanks for giving me some advice, i may just be worrying but will find out this week. i know its not the end of the world just wander what my friends and family will think especially when i am best mates with the father but suppose its better than not being in contact with him at all. thanx x

Hey Girls.
Im glad I found this chat site bc recently I have been feeling very alone. Im only a year older than you..19 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and I love him to death. Tonight he broke up with me, told me he didn't feel the same way about me anymore.. I have been crying non-stop and im so worried that I have done something to hurt my child. Im hoping you guys or someone on here will be able to help me.