I am a single Mum, I have 3 children aged 11, 9 and 6. I have gone and got myself pregnant totally by accident, yes I should have been more careful so I only have myself to blame. I am currently 6 weeks gone, and the man in the situation doesn't want to know and wants me to get rid of the baby, but I am so unsure as to what to do about it. I am totally against abortion for any reason, and can't see myself being able to go through with it. but having this baby will affect me, my kids, my ex and the man and his family for ever. It is an awful situation I find myself in and am so angry with myself for being so careless. Is there anyone out there out is in or has been in a similar situation that could offer any advice - I know ultimately I will have to make the decision, but anything would be appreciated. thanks

Hi, i realy dont know what to say except for "s**t happens" Just go with your heart,Do you have ant supportive family/friends around ?
You wernt the only one being carless, it takes 2 remember.so dont beat yourself up about it.... Is the idea of having another baby so bad, your kids will addampt, likewise everyone else will have to.

The baby didnt ask to be concieved, but hey it has so now the tougher desions need to be made....

Hope it helps a little PM if you like.... karen

thanks for responding. I went to the hospital yesterday not knowing what i wanted to do, but as i sat there in the same room that i had sat in carrying my other children, it made me realise that I have been blessed once again and couldn't ever go through with an abortion - so I have decided to keep the baby and deal with it. I have a fantastic family who will support me and great friends, plus I am sure the kids will help all they can. I will enjoy this pregnancy as I have all the others and look forward to welcoming my new baby in November. Thanks again. Kelly x

I admire you , how brave you are. You made a great decision, conratulation with your pregnancy.
I have one child and i would like to have another one but my husband doesnt wish more kids (has silly reasons)and so many time i secreatly hope that he will "make misake when we make love )and i will get pregnant but nothing.. On the other side dont want to push him
Every pregnancy is a gift of God so enjoy it. I know it will be hard for you since you are alone but that will not be forever and your kids are big and i am sure they will be helping you.
Congratulations again and take care,
.Ida.